TeddyBearDaddy21 Posted June 10, 2017 Report Posted June 10, 2017 (edited) So I'm still fairly new to bring a daddy but things have come fairly naturally to me. I've learnt allot already from the community so maybe you guys can answer this one. I know that in a bdsm relationship the dom can make a rule that his sub must wear this or that aka the dress code. But I wonder, have any littles ever had a dress code given to then from their daddy? If so what kind of things would he make you wear? Hope to hear from you guys soon. C: Edited June 10, 2017 by TeddyBearDaddy21
*Firefly* Posted June 11, 2017 Report Posted June 11, 2017 hai soooo this is honestly a tough one so my daddy didnt give me a speific "dress code" per se, but he does tell me when i wear something that isnt okay. ie when i wear a crop top and a flannel he tells me not to take off the flannel. however, different relationships hve different ways of handling little dressing. heres what i have done in the past with my littles and a few suggestions: girl: *no showing off daddy/mommy's special parts (i.e., must not show breasts, cleavage, vagina, butt) *no crop tops/booty shorts *dresses and skirts must reach a certain length in order to be worn outside of the house *dress code may be amended by mommy/daddy *all outfits must be approved by mommy/daddy boy; *no booty shorts or shorts that show daddy/mommy's special parts (i.e., penis, butt) *no going shirtless outside of the house *shorts must reach a certain length in order to be worn outside of the house. *dress code may be amended by mommy/daddy *all outfits must be approved by mommy/daddy nonbianary/nongenderconforming: *no booty shorts or shorts that show daddy/mommy's special parts (i.e., penis, butt, vagina, breasts, etc.) *no going shirtless outside of the house *shorts must reach a certain length in order to be worn outside of the house. *binders ae allowed, but remember to take them off at night for safety reasons *no crop tops/booty shorts *dresses and skirts must reach a certain length in order to be worn outside of the house *dress code may be amended by mommy/daddy *all outfits must be approved by mommy/daddy i hope this helped!!! 1
TeddyBearDaddy21 Posted June 11, 2017 Author Report Posted June 11, 2017 hai soooo this is honestly a tough one so my daddy didnt give me a speific "dress code" per se, but he does tell me when i wear something that isnt okay. ie when i wear a crop top and a flannel he tells me not to take off the flannel. however, different relationships hve different ways of handling little dressing. heres what i have done in the past with my littles and a few suggestions: girl: *no showing off daddy/mommy's special parts (i.e., must not show breasts, cleavage, vagina, butt) *no crop tops/booty shorts *dresses and skirts must reach a certain length in order to be worn outside of the house *dress code may be amended by mommy/daddy *all outfits must be approved by mommy/daddy boy; *no booty shorts or shorts that show daddy/mommy's special parts (i.e., penis, butt) *no going shirtless outside of the house *shorts must reach a certain length in order to be worn outside of the house. *dress code may be amended by mommy/daddy *all outfits must be approved by mommy/daddy nonbianary/nongenderconforming: *no booty shorts or shorts that show daddy/mommy's special parts (i.e., penis, butt, vagina, breasts, etc.) *no going shirtless outside of the house *shorts must reach a certain length in order to be worn outside of the house. *binders ae allowed, but remember to take them off at night for safety reasons *no crop tops/booty shorts *dresses and skirts must reach a certain length in order to be worn outside of the house *dress code may be amended by mommy/daddy *all outfits must be approved by mommy/daddy i hope this helped!!! alright I think I get it then. So if ever your daddy said that your shirt was too see through you'd have to change or perhaps throw a fairly large hoodie to cover up?
*Firefly* Posted June 11, 2017 Report Posted June 11, 2017 alright I think I get it then. So if ever your daddy said that your shirt was too see through you'd have to change or perhaps throw a fairly large hoodie to cover up? there isnt really a definitive answer to that, im sorry. so this topic really depends on the relationship and the boundaries of the little and their CG. if the little is okay with having a dress code, then yes. theoreticfally, the CG could tell them to change or throw on a hoodie. but before enforcing a dress code, make sure your little is okay with it. for me, i would not be okay with being told what to wear, but im okay if im wearng something and my daddy tells me not to wear it again or say s i need to change. it all just depends on the little, the CG, and their relatonship.
mylittlesidewearsblack Posted June 11, 2017 Report Posted June 11, 2017 Daddy and me are in a TPE in addition to being DDLG, so my rules are pretty well strict, but ... he will often pick out my clothes on any given day i cannot buy clothes that he hasn't chosen or he doesn't give me the ok for i have to wear a specific kind of underclothes i have to wear specific colors so everyone's rules are different.
*Firefly* Posted June 11, 2017 Report Posted June 11, 2017 Daddy and me are in a TPE in addition to being DDLG, so my rules are pretty well strict, but ... he will often pick out my clothes on any given day i cannot buy clothes that he hasn't chosen or he doesn't give me the ok for i have to wear a specific kind of underclothes i have to wear specific colors so everyone's rules are different. what is a TPE? sorry ive never heard that term before
mylittlesidewearsblack Posted June 11, 2017 Report Posted June 11, 2017 what is a TPE? sorry ive never heard that term before TPE = total power exchange it's a 24/7 lifestyle in which i am submissive in all things.
TeddyBearDaddy21 Posted June 11, 2017 Author Report Posted June 11, 2017 (edited) Daddy and me are in a TPE in addition to being DDLG, so my rules are pretty well strict, but ... he will often pick out my clothes on any given day i cannot buy clothes that he hasn't chosen or he doesn't give me the ok for i have to wear a specific kind of underclothes i have to wear specific colors so everyone's rules are different. by TPE you mean total power exchange right? I've heard of it but haven't experienced. But goes to show that your rules vs firefly's rules for this have a massive gap! This is really helpful tbh, the last little I was with said that I wasn't strict enough about her dressing habits, :/ I guess it really depends on how much control the sub would want to give the dom? Edited June 11, 2017 by TeddyBearDaddy21 1
*Firefly* Posted June 11, 2017 Report Posted June 11, 2017 (edited) can TPE = total power exchange it's a 24/7 lifestyle in which i am submissive in all things. is it okay if i message you privately? ive never heard of this and i wanna know more xD it sounds awesome Edited June 11, 2017 by *Firefly*
mylittlesidewearsblack Posted June 11, 2017 Report Posted June 11, 2017 by TPE you mean total power exchange right? I've heard of it but haven't experienced. But it does me that your rules vs firefly's rules for this have a massive gap! This is really helpful tbh, the last little I was with said that I wasn't strict enough about her dressing habits, :/ I guess it really depends on how much control the sub would want to give the dom? correct! everyone is different. we also have blanket consent vs situational consent so honestly the best option is to just talk about it all up front and see how things go. and honestly, it's not even so much rules in specific anymore, it's i know what is expected of me and that's just our lives now. 1
mylittlesidewearsblack Posted June 11, 2017 Report Posted June 11, 2017 can is it okay if i message you privately? ive never heard of this and i wanna know more xD it sounds awesome oh sure. go for it.
*Firefly* Posted June 11, 2017 Report Posted June 11, 2017 by TPE you mean total power exchange right? I've heard of it but haven't experienced. But it does me that your rules vs firefly's rules for this have a massive gap! This is really helpful tbh, the last little I was with said that I wasn't strict enough about her dressing habits, :/ I guess it really depends on how much control the sub would want to give the dom? hi teddybeardaddy21 can i ask you a question? i want more rules from my daddy and i have brought it up multiple times but he kind of blows it off. is there any advice you could give me on how to get him to take it more seriously? sorry i know this is off topic
TeddyBearDaddy21 Posted June 11, 2017 Author Report Posted June 11, 2017 (edited) hi teddybeardaddy21 can i ask you a question? i want more rules from my daddy and i have brought it up multiple times but he kind of blows it off. is there any advice you could give me on how to get him to take it more seriously? sorry i know this is off topic no worries xD I can make a suggestion but it'll be off the top of my head. Seeing as you've approached him about this already on multiple occasions, perhaps a more indirect approach would work. Perhaps being a tad more rebellious will show your daddy that you don't have enough rules to keep you in place. My ex little did it to me multiple times to hint me and id try to make that adjustment. Edited June 11, 2017 by TeddyBearDaddy21
*Firefly* Posted June 11, 2017 Report Posted June 11, 2017 no worries xD I can make a suggestion but it'll be off the top of my head. Seeing as you've approached him about this already on multiple occasions, perhaps a more indirect approach would work. Perhaps being a tad more rebellious will show your daddy that you don't have enough rules to keep you in place. My ex little did it to me multiple times to hint me and id try to make that adjustment. o otay ill try that ty hun xD
PartyAnimal Posted June 11, 2017 Report Posted June 11, 2017 I have fairly relaxed rules for my babygirl. She basically can dress as she pleases so long as she pleases UNLESS Daddy has a concern about something. At that point she changes into something more appropriate. It's rather basic, but it works for us. 3
Lil' Miss Dolly Posted June 11, 2017 Report Posted June 11, 2017 Dominus is strict (tpe) so I very much have a dress code. It's basically I have to always dress modestly in public, my body belongs to my Dom and he should be the only one who gets to see those parts of me. Skirts stay at knee length, no crazy cleavage, no see through stuff. At home I have uniforms which are essentially dresses that Dominus has picked out and they are for his eyes only. Most have matching collars that he gets me to make on my sewing machine. My clothing is pretty much divided between house clothes and outside clothes. 2
LittlePupRune Posted June 11, 2017 Report Posted June 11, 2017 My little and I don't really have much of a dress code, it doesn't fit our relationship. Dress codes and set things like that are not required in any sort of bdsm dynamic. They are just options when it comes to expressing that power exchange and dynamic. Nothing is really required (apart from consent) to make something a certain dynamic, you tailor what you want and like to what works for you and your partner. 3
TeddyBearDaddy21 Posted June 11, 2017 Author Report Posted June 11, 2017 Dominus is strict (tpe) so I very much have a dress code. It's basically I have to always dress modestly in public, my body belongs to my Dom and he should be the only one who gets to see those parts of me. Skirts stay at knee length, no crazy cleavage, no see through stuff. At home I have uniforms which are essentially dresses that Dominus has picked out and they are for his eyes only. Most have matching collars that he gets me to make on my sewing machine. My clothing is pretty much divided between house clothes and outside clothes.that's so cool that you make your own collars. And thanks for the info. C:
GodzillaPrincess Posted June 11, 2017 Report Posted June 11, 2017 No.. Daddy says he approves of what I wear. Show off my lovely figure without putting it all "out there". He says *I blush* he likes my sense of style. 1
chubbylilwolfcub Posted June 11, 2017 Report Posted June 11, 2017 Daddy often picks out ny outfit for the day but as a whole he has no control over my wardrobe. Every single relationship, CGl or not, is different. Some littles like strict rules and dress codes and limited freedoms. Some of us dont. It all just depends on what those in the relationship want/need. 1
ronja Posted June 11, 2017 Report Posted June 11, 2017 Well since I'm kinda cold always, I often wear daddy's clothes, but this isn't really a dresscode haha But it's really relaxing and nice to have his scent with me, and it really helps me get into little spacealso clothes you buy for her (a cute pyjama or shirt) will remind her of you and may get her into little space 4
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