me and my daddy are in a ldr and are have problems. need advice

[Alliekat93]

so me and my daddy have been together for six months and have been in a ddlg relationship for about 2 months now but we have been best friends our whole life. he moved 2 years ago to another state and we have been doing our best to make the relationship work and so far it has but here lately every time we have planed for me to go see him or for him to come see me he has cancled for good reasons. but every time he does it really upsets. we are trying to make plans to move in together but even those plans keep getting changed or pushed back. its all starting to really upset me to the point where I don't even want to talk to him about one of us visiting the other or about us moving in idk what I should do

[softangel]

i'm sorry that's awful i think the best thing to do is tell him how you feel!! i know that seems scary but communication is a very important part of any relationship especially ddlg! after talking to him you'll have a better sense of how he's really feeling and if those feelings will keep or relationship together or not. it's not healthy for you to keep going along without knowing. best of wishes and i hope everything works out well <3 if you want to talk more about it feel free to chat me!!

[Guest Mr.Stuffykins]

The only thing you can do in this situation is confront him. If you just hold it in you'll probably develop negative feelings towards him. Dont ever hold anything in because in a LDR communication and trust are the definitive factors in having a successful relationship.
You need to tell him that what he is doing is causing you to actually avoid wanting to see him.  If my little or girlfriend told me this it would be like a wake up call that I need to start making more of an effort to go through with it. Or to simply not make plans until I'm completely sure that I can follow through. Either way it would motivate me to do better and would benefit the relationship as whole. If after telling him there is no change then you might have to start considering that perhaps he is avoiding you for one reason or another.
Either way I wish you the very best and hope you two are able to work things out.
Take care!

[Alliekat93]

thank you for the advice. I'm going to talk to my daddy about it today when he gets off work and hopefully it goes well.