*Trigger Warning* I just broke up with my Daddy, what do I do?

[Edi]

I just stumbled upon this site, but I have a topic. My daddy left me, and I have absolutely no idea what to do. He was a comfort zone though, but he was abusive, he took advantage of my punishments, what was once Time-Outs became Spanking, then Spanking became Paddling, and Paddlings became Getting Daddy's belt. I was overwhelmed, because I'm a petite little one who ranges from a 6 month old infant to a 3 year old toddler, and I became so upset once Daddy left that I regretted having to Break up with him. It was just so strange not to have anyone come home and tuck you in, giving you a kiss on the forehead and whispering sweet nothings to you. So, I need help. What do I do ? Edited June 6, 2017 by DaddysMonkey

[littlesuzy]

i can help with it My mom was in abusive too but i had ti help her one day he was hitting her i came out and i got hurt bad she regretted it she took time with herself and kids and will mostly me i had to get a cast again but all you need is time with yourself you will get though it trust me 

[Guest HanaK]

I'm sorry that you're going through this. Breaking up is already a stressful situation, adding abuse into it must be a true nightmare. No one has the right to do something like that, specially a person you invest so much on emotionally. Since I don't know the details of your relationship, how long you've been together, if you had any similar experiences in the past, how was your mental state before him compared to now... I believe you should talk to a very close friend or family member. They are definetely the ones that can confort you and say if seeking professional help would be the best. Since the break up if still recent I guess surrounding yourself with your loved ones until the dust comes down would be the best thing to do. 

[LilPetPet]

I am so sorry you are going through all of this. Your world must feel upside down. I have seen in life that that is when God is moving us somewhere He wants us to go. I suggest pray to Him for guidance and direction. He is near to the brokenhearted. Take time being single and refresh. It feels hard to be on your own, I am sure. But you can do it! And you are never really alone. God is there caring for you. Spend time with friends who lift you up. If you don't have any, make new. Do some things you've always wanted to do. It will get better!

[Guest Mr.Stuffykins]

From what you've said I can say that, although it may not seem that way, this was for the best. The level of punishment was getting progressively worse and it was reaching a point that you were not comfortable with. Pushing someone, especially a little, to an extent that she feels overwhelmed is simply a no no. I can't say much and I apologize if I speak out of line, but this is definitely something that shouldve happened sooner than later. Initially, as in most cases a break up is difficult. Regardless of the circumstances ending a relationship with someone you had/have feelings for is never easy. But in time I'm sure you'll realize that this was for the best. If the relationship was in fact abusive and you stayed in the relationship then chances are it would've gotten even worse. The longer you stay in a relationship the harder it is to leave. I know, without a doubt, you'll find someone even better. Someone that wont make you go through this, someone that won't hurt you or make you feel as if you did something wrong. There's always someone better and everything happens for a reason. For now you just need to reflect on everything and just relaxy^^ dont over think things and don't let them affect you too much! I'm so sorry youre going through this and I wish you all the best. Take care Edited June 6, 2017 by Stuffykins

[Edi]

to From what you've said I can say that, although it may not seem that way, this was for the best. The level of punishment was getting progressively worse and it was reaching a point that you were not comfortable with. Pushing someone, especially a little, to an extent that she feels overwhelmed is simply a no no. I can't say much and I apologize if I speak out of line, but this is definitely something that shouldve happened sooner than later. Initially, as in most cases a break up is difficult. Regardless of the circumstances ending a relationship with someone you had/have feelings for is never easy. But in time I'm sure you'll realize that this was for the best. If the relationship was in fact abusive and you stayed in the relationship then chances are it would've gotten even worse. The longer you stay in a relationship the harder it is to leave. I know, without a doubt, you'll find someone even better. Someone that wont make you go through this, someone that won't hurt you or make you feel as if you did something wrong. There's always someone better and everything happens for a reason. For now you just need to reflect on everything and just relaxy^^ dont over think things and don't let them affect you too much! I'm so sorry youre going through this and I wish you all the best. Take care

 

Thank you lots for caring so much, Mister, it takes a lot of guts to say something like that, especially to someone you don't even know, the same to all the people who commented on this and gave me something to do with myself.