Daddy rules

[Samfantasy]

So I'm not new to being a dom but as for being a daddy I'm having trouble making rules for my significant other/princess. Can someone help me with making rules?

[CheshireNitemare]

Rules are unique to each couple. You know or should know what will work for you and your little. But I'll be nice and through out some ideas.

 

If she/he's been known not to eat as much as they should or they don't eat healthy make it a rule to eat 3 meals/ 3 healthy meals a day.

 

Do they forget to brush their teeth? Make that a rule

 

Make it a rule to get plenty of water in during the day if you thing they need that rule.

 

Are they going to School? Make it a rule they do their homework.

 

That's just a couple of examples. Hope it helps.

[PartyAnimal]

I answer as a fairly new Daddy.  My bbg has medicines that she is prescribed (by a doctor, not me) in the morning and evening.  Times for taking those are rules.  She has a bad habit of staying up too late and not getting the sleep she needs to productively face the next day - so she has a set bedtime.  At times, although she is an absolute dream of a lady, she doesn't have the language of a lady - so we have a rule to help her (and me) with that.  She has certain tasks that are her specific responsibilities around the house each day - there are rules that prevent her from having more than a certain amount of phone or screen time before those tasks are completed.  When she goes out, she always looks remarkable, but sometimes her choice of clothes makes her look "too remarkable."  So she has a rule that I approve her outfits before going out.

 

I am constantly trying to grow and develop as a Daddy myself and often clip stuff and send it to myself (yes, I actually email myself.  Don't ask.)  Below is something I sent myself. I regret to admit I did not include the source of this.  Huge apologies to its author.  I mean no disrespect to him. Quite the opposite, I found this helpful and trust it will be helpful to you as well:

 

"Rules

 

Every set of rules is going to be different, simply because every Little and CG is different. There are a few important things to keep in mind when making your own set of rules.

 

#1 Rules are not meant to control and restrict.

#2 Rules are meant to guide and enrich.

#3 Rules can and should be modified as seen necessary.

 

We know everyone is different which means what I need to help myself grow and enrich is going to be different from anyone else. This is why communication during the making of rules is so important.

 

The following are rules that I personally use, below each rule is a short reason for why this rule is used. Most rules are meant to help me personally cope and be the best that I can be, with the help and encouragement of my CG. We both sat down and made these rules together.

 

• No television until I have read for at least 30 minutes.

  • Reading is something I LOVE DOING. But when you are facing depression, it is difficult to keep doing the things that you love.

• Daily Chores must be completed before going out

  • This one is a lenient one, if I am working that morning, obviously this isn't feasible.

• Wake up by 9am on Weekdays & 10am on Weekends.

  • To us, waking up early means a longer, more fruitful and productive day

• Must be showered & dressed by 11am

  • Once again depression factors into this rule. If I had my way I would be in my pajamas, in bed all day most days.

• May only be on the computer or phone for 30mins after bedtime (reading is okay)

  • This is also a lenient rule we have, due to my position on this site. It is a rule because I do struggle with sleeping, taking away screens helps calm me down before a night of rest.

• Must eat something before 5pm

  • Was originally "eat before 3pm" I am sorry to say that proved difficult to implement so it was modified to make it easier for me to accomplish.

• No coffee after 8pm

  • Too much caffeine = bad night of sleep for me. Another modified rule, originally "No coffee after 5pm" psh yeah right 

• No energy drinks without permission

  • As you can probably tell, I have a caffeine problem. Honestly got so tired of waiting for the okay, that I have not had an energy drink in ages.

• Monitored drinking (alcohol) & smoking

  • Both of these are mentally and physically related. For my health across the board.

• Negative self thoughts & feelings should be directed to my CG.

  • I understand that many have rules stating "no negative talk/thoughts" and ideally this would be good enough. Realistically, one cannot hope to completely stop such thoughts and ignoring them is not effective. So my CG prefers that I talk to him about these things, so he can converse with me, soothe my feelings, help me think positively and help me change these things I dislike.

• No online shopping without permission

  • hehe

• No art projects requiring paint and/or glue without permission/supervision

  • hehehheehehehehehe

• No phone or computer out during meals

  • Just a common courtesy thing.

Note that a few rules were amended. This is because rules are not meant to be broken however, those rules were broken an incredible amount of times. Rather than continue senseless punishment, amendment of those rules was made to help me.

Modify rules as much as needed and go over rules every now and again, some rules may be taken out and some may need to be added."

[cuppycakes]

You shouldn't have to come up with the rules all by yourself! She should be there to help you with it (that's why it's impossible to make rules for someone before you meet them). Here's a list of examples if you two need a starting point. Have fun!

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/2210-what-are-your-rules/page-6?hl=rules&do=findComment&comment=67738

[chubbylilwolfcub]

Yeah Daddy and I sat down and worked out what rules work for us(me) and all of Daddy's rules are to help me keep up with my physical and emotional well being rather than as restrictive or controlling (brush my teeth, get good sleep, talk to Daddy about whats on my mind, always kiss Daddy goodnight, etc)

[MeepMoop]

The rules my daddy gave me are...

1) brush your teeth before bed

2) be awake, showered and dressed before lunch time

3) do my homework

4) kisses goodnight

5) no tv until chores and homework are done

6) tell daddy when I'm sad

[SkunkPrincess]

These are my rules <3

 

The rules of Daddy.

Obience

1. Always obey Dadd his orders without hesitation.

2. You can call Daddy anything you like, but it has to be respectful.

3. Always be respectful towards Daddy.

4. Always respond with yes Daddy/no Daddy/sorry Daddy.

5. When Daddy says no, it means no. Do not whine.

6. Tell Daddy when you did something bad and never ever lie to Daddy.

7. When outdoors, stay close to Daddy. Never walk away from Daddy.

8. Always let Daddy pay and ask permission first before you buy something.

9. Princess her body belongs to Daddy and no one else.

10. Daddy can touch Princess anytime he wants, anywhere he likes.

11. Daddy is always right.

12. Always give Daddy a goodmorning and a goodnight message.

13. You shall do your best at school and make good grades.

14. You shall not touch yourself unless Daddy has given you permission.

15. Do not look in Daddy’’s eyes unless Daddy has given you permission.

16. Tell Daddy when you need to go and where you are going.

17. Do not take off your collar without permission (except if you are going to sleep)

18. Princess shall take the punishment without whining.

 

Health

1. You have to eat every morning. Daddy will remind you of that.

2. Always take your medicine on 8:00 and 18:00. Daddy will remind you of that.

3. You can only have two glasses of cola every day. You need to ask Daddy first.

4. No drinking cola an hour before bedtime

5. No use of alcohol or drugs.

6. Do not smoke.

7. Eat a piece of fruit every day.

8. Brush your teeth twice a day.

9. Put on clean socks and underwear every morning.

 

 

 

 

Social

1. No talking to strangers.

2. No use of bad words.

3. Don’t talk to people on the black list.

4. Always be polite towards everyone.

5. When someone tries to flirt with you, always tell Daddy.

6. No relationships with anyone other than Daddy.

 

 

Emotional

1. Use the safeword if you can’t handle the situation. The safeword is: ‘’Yamate’’

2. Do not say anything negative about your body or personality.

3. Do not harm yourself or other people.

4. When something is wrong, always tell Daddy.

5. No secrets for Daddy.

6. Do not bite off the skin from your fingers/lips

7. Do not start ranting about random topics.

8. Don’t talk only in a negative way about things.

9. Do not whine.

10. If you have to cry, you have to cry. Crying is always okay.

11. No attitude towards Daddy.

12. Tell Daddy if he hurted your feelings.

 

Safety

1. Do not touch anything dangerous: Knifes, lighters, scissors.

2. Do not climb on any furniture.

3. Do not touch the stove or hot pans without permission (except if you are cooking for school)

 

 

 

 

 

 

Punishments for Princess

A warning is given first.

Spankies.

No pc/phone/television until she listens or says sorry.

No snackies or nom noms.

Toy or stuffie gets taken away.

An angry Daddy.

 

Rewards for Princess.

A massage

The head tickler

A movie by Princess her choice

An extra glass of cola

A warm glass of choccy milk

Something yummy from the store under 3 euro’s

A stuffie (when Princess has been a really good girl!)

Extra attention from Dadd.

 

 

Rules for Daddy.

1. When Daddy is being mean, unfair or unpolite, you can tell that to him.

2. When Princess is sick, Daddy must take care of her.

3. Daddy shall protect Princess at all cost.

4. When Princess is in trouble, Daddy should help her.

5. Daddy needs to check if Princess eats healthy enough.

6. Daddy shall give Princess alot of attention.

7. When Daddy is sick, tired, stressed or can’t handle the situation, he has to tell Princess.

8. Daddy shall do the things Princcess can’t do herself: Dressing up, feeding etc.

9. Daddy must always give Princess aftercare after rough making out or a punishment.

10. Daddy must stop immidiately after the safeword has been said.

11. Daddy must always be there for Princess and give her lots of love.

12. Daddy must clean whatever he has used (put it in the dishwasher, trow it in the garbage can)

 

Punishments for Daddy:

No kisses.

No touchy.

No cuddles.

An angry Princess.

Edited June 6, 2017 by SkunkPrincess

[onkizomba]

All great suggestions! Thought also if rules are too complicated - create a simple mantra, that's easy to remember like:

 

• "Daddy knows best."
• "Sugar & spice & everything nice. That’s what I’m made of."

Daddy Dom can also simply create a one rule that Little Girl must obey for the day, like “You may only eat veggies and fruits today.”

 

Oh and you might wanna check this DDLG guide to fill in more holes how to play that Daddy Dom / Little Girl play, enter the little space ...etc.