Things to keep your Little happy and Smile.

[Nel-Chan]

So, I ran across this bit here https://www.domsub.life/ddlg/10-ways-to-make-your-little-smile/ and it really made me feel like a lot of the problems and issues I've had in past regular relationships, would've been easily remedied by a few of these here.

 

Simple but meaningful ways to express wanting, love, affection and appreciation def go a long way for me. Even waking up to a note, or message with thoughts of ms...make my,day that much better.

 

How about the rest ov you, what ways can a Daddy or Mommy do to make your day that much brighter and happier?

 

Same for the Caregivers reading, what ways have you done, or ones you think could make your Little sparkle and shine

[tayiie]

My ex did so much for me that made me feel loved, apreciated, wanted and all. Some things were just simple things like him talking to me while on his break when he was at work. Other things were long skype calls before i fell asleep with unlimited story telling! We were long distance and if someone made me feel wanted, loved, apreciated and all other things through distance i can not even imagine how he would had made me felt if we had gotten real.

 

But for a IRL relationship i think i would like spontanious flowers. Lots of hugs and cuddles. Messages telling how much i am loved or maybe how mich i mean to him, i think that would brighten my day. Maybe a surprice every now and then seems nice. Tjeres just a hell of a lot of things one can do to make someone else feel loved, wanted or apreciated. Its not even hard to do most times.

[Nel-Chan]

*nods* I can imagine that being a big thing, even over distance.  I have never had someone truly try to love me...all my people I've been in a relationship with all seem to go the same route...them only talking to me when it's convenient for them, not talking a lot or often enough and the most hurtful...just stopping a conversation and leaving or  going to do something else....It's funny how a lot ov what you see Littles say what Littlespace is for them, or even being Little/sub is that it's about Attention, Attention, Attention and ohhhh how that's such a truth for me, make me feel special, loved, not that I should get used to you getting distracted ALL the time and that it's perfectly ok.... I feel people want someone to love them...but don't want to go thru the whole caring and love aspect and not changing their life/schedule to include a living breathing person.

[Guest Sephi]

The fact that someone would take the time to check on me throughout the day makes me feel very special and cared for. I stay very busy and am also an independent Little- so constant attention is not something I require. A short text in the middle of the day, even if it is just a picture of their lunch, or asking how my day has been....it really makes me feel good.

[Nel-Chan]

The fact that someone would take the time to check on me throughout the day makes me feel very special and cared for. I stay very busy and am also an independent Little- so constant attention is not something I require. A short text in the middle of the day, even if it is just a picture of their lunch, or asking how my day has been....it really makes me feel good.

Sometimes the littlest thing, makes the biggest effect.  I was once told, "what we say and do to someone, effects them and maybe you don't realize it but *WE* have the power to change how someone feels..."  And while that was mostly a way to illustrate bullying and things, it also applies to good things we say and do.