Rewards

[Coley92]

Hi all,

 

My little has been a very good girl the last week or so and i want to reward her... how do you all reward them? Do you get them treats?

[LittleRae]

My Daddy and I have a rewards system.

 

Rewards:

 

LEVEL 1:

-Coloring (little gets to choose coloring book, and Daddy and little color together)

-Kissies from Daddy

-Sticker (Daddy gets to choose sticker for me!)

 

LEVEL 2: 

-Extra hour of cartoons or Internet

-Bedtime Story (Little gets to choose from list of stories).

-Healthy Snack (fruit or veggies, MAYBE Goldfish or Cheezits).

 

LEVEL 3:

-Sweets (2-3 pieces of candy AT THE MOST).

-Movie (Little gets to choose movie)

-Daddy plays with Barbies

 

LEVEL 4:

-Video Games with Daddy (HAVE TO BE KID FRIENDLY)

-Go to the park or to a museum.

-Art with Daddy (painting or photography)

 

LEVEL 5:

-Little gets to buy a toy ($25 limit)

-Go and see a movie (something that Daddy and Little both agree on).

-Baking (As long as Daddy's there to help!)

 

 

PUNISHMENTS

 

LEVEL 1:

-Warning (no punishment is taken into effect until after Daddy gives Little warning.)

-Written apology/Verbal Apology

 

LEVEL 2:

-Quiet Time/Time Out (Daddy sets timer, Little must stay in time out for pre-determined amount of time.)

-Go to bed early (Little must be in bed with lights out and no movie an hour early).

-Write lines (30+ lines)

 

LEVEL 3:

-No cartoons for evening.

-No Internet or gaming.

-Grounded for the night.

 

LEVEL 4:

-Chores (must be completed before Daddy gets home from work).

-Extended Grounding (3-4 days; restrictions will vary).

-No cuddling.

 

LEVEL 5:

-Take away paci (this one is huge for me, because my paci makes me feel comforted and safe.

-No sex. Like. Period.

[tayiie]

When I have a daddy we will probably sit down and talk about rewards. Because I like stuffs others may not. The things I like and can come up with atm is

Gaming with daddy

Watching movie (specificly i have two movies i love and prefer, and can watch any time)

Strawberries (best reward ever to me)

Spanking (i do enjoy spankings to some degree)

Get a new game/toy/stuffy

Go out and eat some place nice

Extra cuddles and hugs

Stickers

If were long distance at the time and ive been super good I would like a package to be sent to me with something small ^.^ but then I must havr been good for a long time!

And theres prolly more that can be added to the list.

 

My advice is to talk with your little and see what the person likes.