Sub needing advice on how to make up a bad mistake to her DD

[Owned]

OK so my dom is unavailable to me on a daily basis and sometimes I start thinking I need more to a relationship the what we have so I get a boyfriend from time to time and go in good girl status even tho I'm on restriction and no longer allowed to play with others because of the getting boyfriends thing but my DADDY is always there to welcome me back with open arms now he's a little fed up to say the least I've done this 3 times in a year I got demoted from Princess status I need some suggestions on how to make it up to my DADDY

[cuppycakes]

Don't cheat anymore.

[Guest Little_Lia]

What cuppycakes said. Unless you've made an agreement that you can see people on the side, don't do it. As for making it up to him, the same thing, stop trying to see other people. He's obviously hurt, so just talk about it and come up with a solution together. 

[Guest Sweetkittenbj]

Acknowledge it's gong to take time for him to trust you again. Acknowledge that you may not be able to regain that trust (sad but true). Talk to hm about why you cheat and see if the two of you can identify anything that flips the 'cheat switch' then learn how to recognize it & come up with a plan to not cheat.

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

I'd suggest doing some soul searching and figuring out WHY you cheat first and foremost. Maybe you do in fact need more from a relationship to feel fulfilled and thats okay. There is no justification for cheating.. Ever and it sounds to me personally like you may just have bad coping skills. That doesnt make you a bad person - just means you make poor choices. Perhaps the nicest thing you could do for him is leave him alone if you cannot stop yourself from being unfaithful - Its a harsh thing to have to face but sometimes Love  just isn't enough to save a sinking ship. No one deserves to feel the sting of being cheated on - It crushes you. I truly hope you guys figure it out! 

[Somewhatdiscreet]

Ok, I'm having trouble trying to decipher what you're actually trying to say but this is what I can gather from it.

 

You didn't make a "bad mistake", you've done this repeatedly. I'm assuming this isn't a one off drunken smooch at a night club, I'm not sure how you categorize these people as boyfriends if you're in a relationship already. You've cheated on him multiple times. Don't try and justify this by implying you were lonely or have needs he wasn't able to take care of, you should have gone to him first and found some kind of compromise before seeking out other people.

 

What kitten and Dolly said is absolutely true, think about it from your DD's perspective: You've cheated on him not once, not twice, but three times (a laadyyy....). I wish the best for you, but I can't see how he'd ever be able to trust you in the same way again without some seismic shifts to your behaviour and a whole lot of luck.

[PartyAnimal]

I think you have received advice that is both spot on and quite practical.  Open, honest communication is essential in any relationship that has any depth to it.  You and your Daddy need that kind of communication.  Openly share your apology with him, but also respectfully, yet honestly share your needs and frustrations with him as well.  Any good Daddy both wants and needs to know how his little is feeling.  He wants to meet the needs that are there, and will do so in a manner that helps you be the amazing person he already knows you are.  Hear what he has to say in response.  Submit to the discipline he offers.  He is there to take care of you.  If you feel you cannot do this, consider these possibilities: 1) perhaps you like the "idea" of being a babygirl, more than you like being a babygirl.  If so, be honest about it, stop pretending, and just go date.  2) perhaps you do need more from your Daddy.  If that is the case, and if he is not willing to be more, be honest, end the relationship, and seek a more fitting relationship.  3) Perhaps (and please hear this gently) you need a bit more maturity before entering into a DD/bg relationship.  It takes great strength to be a good little.  Work this out together because as Lil' Miss Dolly said, "No one deserves to feel the sting of being cheated on - It crushes you."  I wish you all the best.