Am I A Little?

[alittleunsure441]

Hi, all. New to the ddlg community, and still a bit unsure if I've found my niche. As a 23 year old in a committed relationship, I've always loved the feeling of vulnerability during intimacy, and the idea of being coddled and cooed at - "being Daddy's princess" - makes me throughly aroused. But, I've been told that being a part of this community is about adopting an entire lifestyle. The idea of diapers, pacifiers and pretend play is something that I'm not at all interested in participating in. That said, am I a part of this community? Or, is there a fringe group that I may better fit into?

[littlesuzy]

you are little just you need more time to realies it 

[Princess-P]

CG/l is a BDSM Dynamic. That being said there are so many ways to participate. Some make it a lifestyle 24/7, some a bedroom roleplay, some a non sexual roleplay, and others just incorporate it into their relationships on the fly.

 

You can be a sexual little, a non sexual little, a single little. You can cross being a little with being a slave, pet, submissive, switch, or just about anything else.

 

You dont have to like diapers, sippy cups, pacifiers... Those are superficial items that some, but not all, littles enjoy.

 

You can age play (or not), have little space (or not),or actually age regress (or not).

 

So basically be what you want, do what you want, and identify as what you want. How can anyone tell you you dont belong in a dynamic that has so many avenues? The people telling you that need to get over themselves.

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Well... if those things are required to be little, I guess I wouldn't be one. But I most certainly am.

 

That being said, DDlg IS a major part of my life. I don't use sippies pacifiers or diapers. I don't age play or regress. I DO act very child-like naturally. I am also a leader at my job and a mother of two. I'm married to my Daddy. As big of a part of our lives as DDlg is... we have other aspects of our lives as well.

 

Do you. If you believe you're little, you are. Do research and find your niche in our community if you choose, or elsewhere if you feel better suited for that: the most important thing is being you.

[Guest LordEmtheDinosaur!]

Just make it your own, there's no requirement except for consent. You are a little if you think you are since there's no rules about it.

[Guest Sweetkittenbj]

Being a Little or Middle is like being a snowflake. Each one is unique & beautiful. What works for some, doesn't work for others. I don't regress to diapers, pacis , & sippy cups, but I know I'm a Middle. I like coloring, boy bands, stuffier, like any 13-14 year old would, &'I know that pleasing my Daddy makes me very happy & content.

 

The important thing is for you to be YOU. No one can tell what that is, except you.