Talking to multiple Daddies at once advice!

[LittleKitty1998]

Hi so I'm new to this website and I have been fortunate enough to get messages from multiple daddies. I do not have a daddy nor am I in a LDR. I am talking to multiple daddies in order to get to know them and hopefully start a relationship. However if I don't feel a connection with a daddy or feel we have enough in common. I inform the daddy nicely saying I feel we do not click. I am also informing these daddies that I am talking to other daddies and some are getting mad or even being mean to me about it . I don't know if I should stop this because I feel like I am playing them what should I do ?!

[Princess-P]

Or.. Your not playing them because your being honest about it up front... So maybe they should grow up and realize that they aren't perfect for everyone and accept rejection.

 

Your doing nothing wrong here. And anyone who would expect you to join this site and just latch onto one person is going to star you in the wrong direction anyway.

 

Talk to loads of people. Remember this isn't a dating site and make some friends. Get to know all types of caregivers/littles and get to know yourself. And if someone comes along who you click with then awesome. But even if that happens it doesn't mean you can't keep chatting with people.

 

Your being honest. Your not being mean. People are just lashing out like pouty children because their "Daddy" title didnt win you over.

[LittleKitty1998]

Thank you for your advice !!

[Guest Kali]

Totally agree. If prospective daddies get shitty with you just because you are honest and up front about your intensions then they do indeed need to man up and stop behaving like spoilt brats - actually that's unfair to brats!

[LittleKitty1998]

[Guest blumonkey]

Plenty of males undeserving of being called a daddy. I am currently chatting with two littles, and not pushing either to be my little. This is just friendly chat and anyone behaving negatively or jealously should be blocked at once.

 

A daddy's role is to make a little (even if not his) feel better, not feel like crap.

 

In fact today I pasted a link of another daddy's personal ad, who lives much much closer than I... and gave to one of the two littles.

 

There is no place for a pathetic inferiority complex in a real dominant's life.

[Phxdd]

I agree. As a daddy we should be helping all littles

[Guest SilverStar88]

I think talking to a few daddys at the same time (or the other way around for daddys: with a few littles at the same time) is OK as long as you find someone where it fits, when you basically agree on intensify something together. Then both of them should stop looking. Edited June 1, 2017 by SilverStar88

[LittleKitty1998]

[Guest Sweetkittenbj]

My current Daddy doesn't let me talk to my former Daddies, but I can talk to other men. If those conversations turn into a DD/lg convo, then I stop it & remind them I'm taken.

 

One previous Daddy actually got turned on by me talking to other Daddies...especially if he could see the messages or listen to them, but he didn't have to be there.

 

Another Daddy felt the same as the Daddy above, but he had to be included.

 

what I'm trying to get at is with all 3 examples, those were the ground rules that were set up during what I call the negotiation period, & were mutually agreed upon. Steer clear of Daddies acting possessive before you've agreed to terms, that's my advice.

 

Kit

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

If they are getting all sandy vagina'd because you're being honest... run away. Far, FAR away. Red Flag. What you're doing is the right thing to do and I commend you for being smart and not rushing. If you are not committed to any of these men and are just in the getting to know you phase... you owe them nothing but honesty. 

[chubbylilwolfcub]

Talking to multiple Daddys when you are committed to one would be "playing them". Talking to multiple Daddys while single is not. If they are getting all butt hurt about it then that is a red flag. No Daddy should have an opinion on who you talk to unless and until they are YOUR Daddy.

[Guest bubbles__]

Totally agree with these comments. I'm in the same boat. Very open about it. If a Daddy gets mean with you please block him. He's a fake Daddy that is abusive. There's no reason why they should get upset unless you two are official.

[Magpies]

You have to talk to multiple people in order to find a match. Nobody would get anywhere if you only ever talked to one person before you were even in a realationship at all. 

Anybody who has a problem with somebody talking to other people before they are formally with that person is not somebody I feel can be trusted.

 

I personally have been very upfront in that I am talking to multiple people in an attempt to make friends first and foremost.
I will not date or let somebody be my daddy/prince/ect until I am friends with them. If I were to only talk to one person at a time I would never ever have a chance of finding somebody. 

 

If somebody gives you flack; block them! They were not worth your time in the first place. 
 

[Guest Sinderella]

If you are not in a relationship, you have the right to talk to whomever you want. That is not playing at all, don't think that! I pretty much do the same thing until I feel a click with someone. Then I usually give them more of my time to see if it has the potential to lead anywhere. If they can't handle that- maybe they are insecure.

[Guest Sweetkittenbj]

And conversely, if one of the Daddies you were talking to before you & your Daddy started your relationship keeps talking to you in a suggestive manner, block him. He's out to see what kind of trouble he can start.

[Guest Mister Tim]

I don't really see their problems to be honest after all you tell them that you are chatting with multiple " possible daddy's" besides your not in a relationship with them yet. So do what you want to do and ignore those grumpy people and I hope that you can find someone who deserves you and that you like soon.

[Daddy_Shaw]

Hi so I'm new to this website and I have been fortunate enough to get messages from multiple daddies. I do not have a daddy nor am I in a LDR. I am talking to multiple daddies in order to get to know them and hopefully start a relationship. However if I don't feel a connection with a daddy or feel we have enough in common. I inform the daddy nicely saying I feel we do not click. I am also informing these daddies that I am talking to other daddies and some are getting mad or even being mean to me about it . I don't know if I should stop this because I feel like I am playing them what should I do ?!

 

You're not playing with them, sweetie. You're being smart. You're weeding out people who could just hurt you. That sound callous, I know. 

 

Don't feel bad about being someone who knows what she is looking for. 

[Guest Mario]

Daddys need to be needed... You know what to do if someone is forcing you towards him.

[LittleKitty1998]

Thank you everyone for the great advice! I have been lucky enough to find a daddy that treats me right!

[Little_Bratt]

Or.. Your not playing them because your being honest about it up front... So maybe they should grow up and realize that they aren't perfect for everyone and accept rejection.

 

Your doing nothing wrong here. And anyone who would expect you to join this site and just latch onto one person is going to star you in the wrong direction anyway.

 

Talk to loads of people. Remember this isn't a dating site and make some friends. Get to know all types of caregivers/littles and get to know yourself. And if someone comes along who you click with then awesome. But even if that happens it doesn't mean you can't keep chatting with people.

 

Your being honest. Your not being mean. People are just lashing out like pouty children because their "Daddy" title didnt win you over.

Literally best/most honest post here. That's the flat out truth. Like seriously