Desperate Little in Need

[Guest PrincessK<3]

I'm pretty new to the dd/lg scene (about 5-6 months) but I'm having a lot of trouble in my relationship. At first, I didn't feel like a little. Then, Daddy helped me into little space. Sometimes, I still feel like a big girl and I'm worried that it's pushing Daddy away. Our relationship hasn't been the best over the past few weeks since we've moved in together and I'm so afraid that he's going to leave me again. I've been really depressed. I feel like I'm annoying Daddy but I really just want attention from him. I know my Daddy loves me and cares for me, but lately he's spent more time hurting my feelings and can't understand how. He even told me that he doesn't see himself growing old with me and that at the end of our lease, he's leaving and not taking me with him. I don't know what to do but this hurts so bad. Please someone help me. I need someone to talk to and need new little friends!

 

Pretty please. Respond here or feel free to send me a KiK message: kyrajaye.

[Guest gentille_dove]

“but lately he’s spent more time hurting my feelings”, doll you gotta leave. that doesn’t sound healthy at all. if he’s telling you explicitly that he doesn’t see a future with you and that he’s upright leaving, which you’ve said he has, then you have to go. you deserve so much better than that. it hurts but it is far better for your wellbeing that you get out of this and save yourself further misery. 

[Guest PrincessK<3]

“but lately he’s spent more time hurting my feelings”, doll you gotta leave. that doesn’t sound healthy at all. if he’s telling you explicitly that he doesn’t see a future with you and that he’s upright leaving, which you’ve said he has, then you have to go. you deserve so much better than that. it hurts but it is far better for your wellbeing that you get out of this and save yourself further misery.

I thought about that, but I can't see myself without him. I love him so much. He's the first daddy dom that I've ever had and I wouldn't even know how to leave. And we live together now ... I don't know how I'd get out of that one.

Edited May 31, 2017 by PrincessK<3

[Guest gentille_dove]

I thought about that, but I can't see myself without him. I love him so much. He's the first daddy dom that I've ever had and I wouldn't even know how to leave. And we live together now ... I don't know how I'd get out of that one.

 

just because he’s the first doesn’t mean he should be the last. even if you live with him, you mentioned a lease, it’s not forever. if he plans to up and abandon you, then you’d best come up with a plan b. i wish you the best of luck, hun. 

[Guest PrincessK<3]

[Guest gentille_dove]

We just moved in together. So we still have 12 months on the lease. He plans to leave when it's over. I'm confused on if I should stick around and enjoy him for now or just leave before he hurts me even worse. I know our relationship isn't supposed to be like this. I shouldn't even be considering this but I'm so confused . Either way, thank you for your advice.

 

is there anyone else you could stay with, a friend or family member perhaps that you trust? “enjoying him for now” won’t last, that’s how the abuse cycle begins. you latch onto the good times and only end up being sucked in as it gets worse. you have every right to be confused because you’re dealing with a lot of conflicting feelings, and you acknowledging that this isn’t normal and you need help is a step in the right direction. 

you’re quite welcome. i have past experience in helping people in abusive situations, never want those in them to suffer if they don’t have to.