Am I really worthless...

[DarksideArchangel]

So I've been rejected and thrown away like worthless trash so damn many times it's actually what I've come to expect now. Because of what I've been thru in the past I feel - and am utterly convinced - that I'm worthless trash. After all, if I wasn't, then I wouldn't keep getting thrown away, right? My ex-wife wouldn't have treated me horrible and thrown me away for dope and assholes. Jesus, I must be pretty damn worthless if drugs and asshole guys are better than me. :/

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Edited May 31, 2017 by DarksideArchangel

[DeathMetalPrincess]

You're not worthless at all. You will find someone to make you happy again. It may take a few tries, but I promise there is someone out there for you, as there is for us all. Please don't give up hope and realize that things don't have to be as bad as all that. I know it's hard, but you can get through this. You're not worthless, ok? Feel free to message me if you need to talk. Everything will be ok, I promise.

[Guest Georgia-Daddy2]

I have felt the same way time and time again but you shouldn't feel worthless finding someone is literally like fishing some people use nets and catch a bunch of little fish while others will cast simply one large hook so big that the small fish can't bite it saving only for the big one you my friend must wait and be patient your big fish is coming

[Princess-P]

Being down on yourself won't make it better. It sounds like the only na who thinks your worthless is you. And your basing your worth on weather or not your in a relationship. Thats rediculous.

 

Maybe try making yourself happy. Are you proud of your accomplishments? Do you have a career you love? How are your finances? Are you where you want to be at this time in your life? Do you have mental health issues that you arent dealing with?

 

To be honest there isn't someone for everyone. Not everyone finds a soul mate. Not everyone gets married. Not everyone who wants children gets to have them. Sometimes we just dont get what we want and have to be happy with what we have.

 

You say people have left you multiple times. Why? Are you still reacting from your ex wife leaving you? Maybe there is something your doing that pushes people away. Being needy? judgemental? Insecure? Down on yourself? accusatory?

 

Really it sounds like you just need to work on yourself and be happy with yourself. Like who you are on your own. stop trying to be in a relationship if your not even ready to be with yourself. Then your worth won't feel based on if someone wants to be with you or not.

[Guest Kali]

Sending you healing thoughts mate... As a guy I'm supposed to pour out practical advice - but as someone who suffers from depression I can tell you that these thought patterns need to be combatted as though your life absolutely depended on it - because it does. I won't lie - there are days I feel like a worthless turd - but I have to remind myself that it ain't true - You've made people smile, and laugh - as have I - and just because someone's judgement is so off they can't value what you have to give, that's not your bad my friend. Some people actually shy away from loving kindness. Be patient. Be kind to yourself. Everything changes - constantly. You are what you consume - not in terms of food - but in terms of thoughts, words and deeds. Avoid junk food - avoid junk thoughts, words and deeds. Feed yourself good thoughts, words and deeds and you wiull start to feel a little better - I promise - despite it being a very difficult medicine to swallow. love...

Edited May 31, 2017 by Kali

[jaredstone363]

You are 1000% NOT worthless. Keep your head up, I know it's hard. Maybe you should raise your "bar" when dating someone. It's like if you always fish in the sewer, you're gonna catch stinky fish. Maybe try different avenues to find someone, because it seems like the current places aren't working for you if you keep getting a**holes. Hang in there, things will get better!!!

[Guest Daddy'sBabyGirl2017]

ur never worthless daddy!! i love you!!

[Guest bubbles__]

I feel the same way I've gotten so bad recently.