guide to ageplay?

[appleblueberry]

hii, my daddy (long distance) says he wants me to try doing more ageplay. he identifies my age as 12 but we both want it to be more like 4-6. i'm really struggling does this come naturally or does anyone have guides, tips, or advice? i'm not really sure what i can do or try to get into the mindset of a child. Edited May 31, 2017 by appleblueberry

[Guest LordEmtheDinosaur!]

You will never know until you try! Let's be open-minded and supportive!

Ageplay mostly uses "props" so try things that 4-6 year olds would maybe sippy or swirly straws or cups with straws, try plastic plates and utensils, you could do stuff like be his helper, feed pets if you have, sticker chart, chores roster etc. Do research and discuss all things before trying!

Part if it comes naturally and you will have to decide when to stop or if this is as young as you could go. Be patient, more relaxed and safe and comfortable you feel the more into little space you can become and keep at it. Don't put pressure on yourself, just let yourself go and see where it goes. 

[LittleGirlSienna]

This was really helpful, I've been struggling to be in little space these days. I never thought of using props as triggers, I usually try forcing it ~mentally~ - no wonder why it wasn't working.

 

Thanks!

[Guest Princessaj]

Hi, sounds like you are torn. Part of you wants to please your Daddy and believe he knows best. The other part is questioning whether or not you really are a little. You have to be you for yourself first and foremost. Being a little is "being" a little. Its there, already, inside. Naturally and there is no pretending to it. Even if you have no accessories or props, you are little, even without a Daddy.

 

You are the only one that can give yourself permission to be who you are. If you want to please your Daddy by acting "like" a little then make peace with that even if you are not a little.

 

Ageplay is acting. Like an actress is cast in a role, she studies the subject, observes the nature and emotions of the character. I suggest going to youtube and searching for the age of children you want to act like. Watch how they talk, walk, crawl, eat..everything and then just recreate that all by acting like that. There are actors that have to be told they are good because they are acting for approval. Other actors act because that is what they are.

 

At last, even if you study and have all the trappings, you may never make your Daddy happy if he has unreasonable expectations that can't be met. My Daddy let's me be me and loves me just the same. I am not acting anything, I am being me. The best part of everything is you can always change your mind about anything and everything. Please try to have fun in life. Hugs