Advice~? **TW**

[KittyKatChan]

I never met a another little before..and I need advice. What would you do if your Mommy/Daddy/caregiver was..abusive..?

[MadeOfClay]

can you tell us about this in a little more detail?! Because if he really is abusive in a way of just hitting you to get his way, then you should DEFINITELY break up or get help from people around you!

 

If you dont mind, i sent you a friend request. would you like to talk a little bit more privately like that?

Edited May 28, 2017 by MadeOfClay

[littlekittygoesmew97]

Hello! I think the best thing you should do, is get yourself out of that situation immediately. Any form of abuse whether it be physical, mental, verbal, or emotional is a big red flag.

 

A caregiver or a little should never be subjected to that kind of treatment at all. Coming from personal experience, when I got abused by one of my exes, I chose to disassociate with them as quick as I could. And let me tell you, I felt relief right away. The pain and psychological damage took a while to recover from, but it was no longer happening to me.

 

I don't know how long you have been together, or if you really love him yet or not, but you need to put yourself and your safety above any type of feelings you may have for this person.

 

If you ever need anything, please don't hesitate to shoot me a PM, and talk. I'll respond as quick as I can!

[Guest Prat]

Abuse is okay if it's consensual but if he's ignoring your safety and consent then that's unhealthy and you should end it before getting badly hurt.. Edited May 28, 2017 by Prat(Praetorian)

[Daddy's_Babygirl]

Abuse is never okay, in my book. Abuse is NOT consented to.

 

Physical punishment, BDSM, pain, sadomasochism... those can all be consented to. Any of the above are okay with consent.

 

Consent is key.