what to do when you fall into littlespace with no daddy/mommy ?

[littlegirlv]

i just recently found out i was a little, and i slip into headspace A LOT. i don't have a s/o, i told my recent ex about it and he totally rejected me for it, so i broke up with him. i slip into headspace anywhere, school, at home, at parties, restaurants, anywhere. i cover it up a lot and it really hurts when i slip into headspace and i'm alone because i don't have a caregiver there for me. any tips on how to make it feel like i have one?

[littlesuzy]

i can total understand how you feel i was the same way i dont have a daddy/mommy but i used to slip into my headspace too it took a while to get out if it. there is some tips i can give you

 

tips:

 

stay clam and breath

 

think of something to big for little cant do

 

try to push way from your headspace from reality 

 

 

text me on kik or on the forum for more help

[Guest ☽ ᴍᴏɴᴏᴄᴇʀᴏs ☾]

Mmm I'm more or less in the same situation. I have no partner and my last relationship ended up pretty bad and left me depressed for months. And a couple of months ago I identified myself as middle. It's hard not to have a caregiver, somehow sometimes I feel lost and alone. And I feel that no one besides me cares about my little accomplishments, like drinking all my water or keeping my weight (I tend to lose weight)

[WinnieThePooh♥]

Well, if you're alone, embrace it, even if you aren't. You could colour in something, you could watch a Disney movie or even talk to fellow littles!

[tayiie]

i slip in to little space a lot these past two years. Now more often than ever. Ive learned that having an imaginary daddy helps me a lot. when it hapens I can start having an attitude change, some notices it others dont. worst was when it happened at school, I got comments "you are such a child" and I would just reply "you know, having a mindset of a child sometimes makes life so much more fun" which usually shut them up! I have a kinky friend, shes a furry, she only knows im half furry, the whole ddlg stuff I dont want to tell her cause I know she doesnt like it at all, which makes me sad I should acept hers but i know she would probably not accept mine. anyhow, a year ago or so i found out my best friend was a little so we can sometime skype and get our little sides out. okay now im rabling, back to imaginary daddy... I find it that "he" helps me cope being single. I have a huge imagination so I can almost "see" him around me, when he hugs me, when he praises me, when he scolds me, when he gives me kisses. its really nice. its not like a real daddy but it heck it helps me cope and Im happy :3 things ive also learned to do when slipping into little space is to always keep a mindfulness coloring book closeby, then I can color in it, or just let your imagination run wild and draw on a blank paper! games helps me too to keep my head busy and not accidentally show my little side at the wrong time. then i can always imagine my imaginary daddy watching me and giving me loving words every now and then

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

I think the biggest piece of advice I can give you is stop relating being little to having a cg. You can absolutely be a Little, Do Little things and embrace that part of yourself without having a caregiver. Laugh, Kick your feet when youre sitting in a higher chair, Squee at stuffies, Colour, watch Monster High... Do whatever makes you feel good! Learn who Little You is before worrying about other people. Learn to Love Little You and you may find you don't have any desire for a Daddy! I love my Dominus but I devoted the time to knowing who Dolly is and Now I can be whoever and whatever I want to be with or without a partner. Being a Little is part of who you are - If you're little that's who you are as a person - Separate from any outside influence. 

 

Welcome to our Blanket Fort and Enjoy the Journey <3

 

Dolly. 

[Guest]

I fall into little space all the time it doesn't matter when or where. I have a daddy I think I really don't know any more. Edited May 29, 2017 by Aurora Rose

[glgkittykat99]

Well hmm...

The first thing I do (wen in public) is try to pull myself out/ away from headspace so i:

Look around me and identify 5 tings I see 3 tings I hear and 2 tings I sMell

Or I try doing summing only a big girl can do and remind myself that is am and that I know how to be a big girl

If I can't get out or away then I indulge in it lol

If I'm home I'll color or play wif stuffed or evn use my Paco

If I'm out in public I'll draw (maybe color depending) and I'll (crazy as this sound but It helps me) tlk to myself as I do other stuffs ^^

Hope this helped