New to this aspect of myself, much confusion.

[Nel-Chan]

H-hi there, I'm brand new to this  uhh lifestyle I guess ish the best way to label this, and I'm so very confused, alone and feeling really vulnerable.  i've looked up and tried to research a bit better on what being a Little is, as well as the paths typically associated wiff being one.  H-however, I'm still so very confused, like being lost in a unfamiliar place and without having someone to help me.  It's why I came to here and decided to open myself up a little and try to sort things out of myself and this new slice of my life

 

I honestly don't know why I'm a little at all, I've had some traumatic experiences in my life that may or may not have possibly affected how I developed as a person and how I'm where I am now.  Every time I feel that I'm secure or understanding of myself, I.... I find new sides of who I am that were there, but jus unknown and unaddressed.  But it's really tough because despite having a loving family, a really good friend and a BF and GF whom do cherish me, I still feel like I'm not getting the guidance and help I really need :[

 

Like, when researching and learning about being a little, I do find myself loving Plushies an awful lot, never growing tired of the Cartoons and kid movies I grew up wiff and finding I act very naive and bratty in playful ways...but those pieces of my personality there, are still fragmented and I'm too short to reach for them to put them together into a bigger picture :X  I need help so very much, but I can't even think of how to even begin to ask in a more precise way.

 

*sighs heavily*  I find I'm growing more stressedtoo because I have so much bottled up inside of me and no one to properly and nicely discuss it wiff :[

[Princess-P]

Learning more about who you are should not feel stressful. Maybe you are a little, maybe you ate not. Liking stuffed animals and cartoons does not make you a little. Accessories and superficial aspects of the dynamic do not make or break a little.

 

Being little is a feeling. A comfort. A stress reliever. Its sometimes only a roleplay (sexual or non sexual), a part time dynamic, or a 24/7 lifestyle.

 

Its what you make of it, so while research is fun because you might find something that interests you to try... Its not really necessary because you won't be like any other little out there. There's no mold to fit into.

 

For example I see you like to type like a child speaks. I, as a little, never use a baby voice nor would I ever type like that. But that doesn't make either of us more little than the other.

 

Just explore the site, but don't worry about tye pressure to find yourself all at once or to fit in and be like anyone else. Just do you. Relax and have fun and if it turns out that your not little and just enjoy some of the accessories then so be it. At least you will learn something new.

[Nel-Chan]

*wav

 

Learning more about who you are should not feel stressful. Maybe you are a little, maybe you ate not. Liking stuffed animals and cartoons does not make you a little. Accessories and superficial aspects of the dynamic do not make or break a little.

Being little is a feeling. A comfort. A stress reliever. Its sometimes only a roleplay (sexual or non sexual), a part time dynamic, or a 24/7 lifestyle.

Its what you make of it, so while research is fun because you might find something that interests you to try... Its not really necessary because you won't be like any other little out there. There's no mold to fit into.

For example I see you like to type like a child speaks. I, as a little, never use a baby voice nor would I ever type like that. But that doesn't make either of us more little than the other.

Just explore the site, but don't worry about tye pressure to find yourself all at once or to fit in and be like anyone else. Just do you. Relax and have fun and if it turns out that your not little and just enjoy some of the accessories then so be it. At least you will learn something new.

*waves at*

 

Thankies fer responding!

 

I have a lot of issues that I'm struggling with, such as Anxiety, Gender dysphoria, BPD, I had instances of being physically and verbally abused by various people who were in my life and so it's created this mass of negativity that make it difficult to accept myself for myself, so finding out new things can be a struggle in of itself, which leads me into being unsure and feeling helpless :[  I guess you could say I have too much on my plate already and having this possible new discovery of Little could be making it more complicated than it needs to be.

 

Yeh, I do tend to type out in being a cute manner, esp when I'm feeling little or playful/bratty.  I semi talk like that but not in an exaggerated type of way, mostly I do my best to act cute.  I'm immensely affectionate and for how I do feel like a little, it's just something I can't quite put into concrete wording, which frustrates me as I'm trying to learn about myself and seek out some support/advice >.<

 

thankies again fer taking the time to share and responds