Guest Older_Daddy Posted May 23, 2017 Report Posted May 23, 2017 (edited) . Edited January 30, 2021 by Older_Daddy 2
Frog Posted May 23, 2017 Report Posted May 23, 2017 I'm only a couple years younger than you, and I can definitely feel where you're coming from. I don't even bother looking now and plan to stay single (or realize I will), and that's one of the many reasons. To be honest, I feel like I'm here merely to learn about DDlg. As much as it makes sense and feels right, I don't think anything will come of it or that I'll ever find a DDlg relationship. All I can say is don't give up on the site. If you do, I'll understand. It's not like the thought hasn't crossed my mind many times, too.
Guest pumpkinpatchPrincess Posted May 24, 2017 Report Posted May 24, 2017 I can understand where you're coming from, and I know I'm not exactly in the same boat... But hope is not lost. I am one of the many that prefer older (much older) Daddies or men and intend on being with men that are much older than me. My current Daddy is turning 26 years old, and I am 19. If it helps, when I was 18, I slept with a guy in his mid-50s and it was one of the best sexual interactions I've had. So yes, some women still want older men. Why not look for a little closer to your age, or start interacting on fetlife? I've seen older littles there. Many littles that are younger are more likely to be taken, from what I've seen and in my own experience, so maybe try that out? 1
Guest Older_Daddy Posted May 24, 2017 Report Posted May 24, 2017 (edited) The site? No. I may be able to answer questions. The realistic idea if finding someone (the type that I'm used to being with), yeah...it's over for me. I've been a DD for almost as long as most of these littles have been alive. I have always had long-term, successful relationships. But finding what I want gets harder and takes longer. I'm simply getting too old to wait for something that MIGHT happen. FL is a joke. I had an account there. There are more fake "women" on that site than Ashley Madison. Edited May 24, 2017 by Llazarus
Guest pumpkinpatchPrincess Posted May 24, 2017 Report Posted May 24, 2017 The site? No. I may be able to answer questions. The realistic idea if finding someone (the type that I'm used to being with), yeah...it's over for me. I've been a DD for almost as long as most of these littles have been alive. I have always had long-term, successful relationships. But finding what I want gets harder and takes longer. I'm simply getting too old to wait for something that MIGHT happen. I'm hoping the best for you and don't think you should give up. You comprising such a deep and influential part of you will leave you unhappy in the end, in my opinion.
Princess-P Posted May 24, 2017 Report Posted May 24, 2017 (edited) Age gaps tend to be a daunting thing. Many of the younger generation do not share common interests with the older generation. Their morals, drive, experiences, mature rate, goals, and perception of what's important are vastly different in most cases. People tend to want someone closer to their own age for these reasons. Have you considered someone closer to your own age or are you only focused on someone substantially younger? Honestly I've seen many littles post about being over 30 and finding it difficult to find men who are not younger. Maybe it us time to move on however. If you become too focused on trying to fine one particular type of person your going to miss wonderful people along the way simply because they don't match everything on your checklist. Many people find partners in the "vanilla" world who are perfect for them. Edited May 24, 2017 by Princess-P 2
Guest Older_Daddy Posted May 24, 2017 Report Posted May 24, 2017 (edited) . Edited January 30, 2021 by Older_Daddy 1
Princess-P Posted May 24, 2017 Report Posted May 24, 2017 That's your choice. Were only offering words of encouragement for whatever you choose. Generally when people post something they are seeking some kind of reply wether it be advice, opinions, or sympathy. Otherwise why post at all? Although giving up something that's important to you is drastic. And many people find vanilla partners who don't even know CG/l dynamics exist but then perfectly fit them and often fall easily into rolls. Whatever you chose, giving up completely or widening your options, best of luck.
Foxcatcher Posted May 24, 2017 Report Posted May 24, 2017 I'm over 50, and I'll never give up. Finding my forever girl is my goal! Even if I fail, it was worth it because I met special people on the way.
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