How To Go About Getting A Caregiver

[punkyprincess]

[Guest Loki]

Meet people, chat and learn. Be careful cause there are a lot of folks who treat this like a game - much like regular dating. Basically, apply regular dating rules. Be yourself, be honest, and get to know people. Go about things in a safe mode. Trust your gut, guardian angel, whatever you want to call it. Something seems off, then it most likely is!

 

More practically, you can always put an ad out in the personals

[Frog]

Like Pinkyellowblue said, a lot of chat and learning. Pretty much, that includes anyone looking for any type of relationship. Maybe it's because I'm an old fart, but I've seen too many relationships crash and burn because people didn't talk first. I'm not saying you're the type to rush into things; I'm saying a lot of people in general do. They forget that between the loving moments in a relationship, there's Real Life.

 

So, basically, look, talk, think, be silly.

[Guest Candy Minx ♡]

honestly.. like any other way you'd go about getting into a relationship. just because

it's a new dynamic for you doesn't mean something like going about finding a 

partner is any different than before. educate yourself on cg/l and what it consists of,

what you're looking to get out of it. just basic stuff like that. 

 

also as a friendly reminder, littles can be littles without a caregiver. if this is as new as

you said it is for you i'd suggest exploring yourself first. learning how to be little solo.

be safe and don't treat cg/l differently than being in a normal ship, remember to use

common sense.