When has enough time passed to disclose

[Maximuswood]

I have a question. I want to get a couple facial tattoos next year give or take a month or 2. During this period of waiting for that, how long into a relationship should I(28) wait to tell HER (18) about this? I dont want to waste anyone's time, im confident ill find someone eventually, more directly when i get the tattoos, but I also want to form a relationship because bad news is taken easier by someone you've taken the time to get to know.

 

A similar viewpoint is someone someone ddlg who wants to tell someone they meet early on about a lifestyle they may disagree with

Edited May 20, 2017 by Maximuswood

[KittyKittyBoBitty]

Hi,

I really hope this doesn't sound rude but I am a little bit confused by your question?

Are you asking when you should tell a possible partner that you are planning to get face tattoos? I think you could bring that up in a conversation at any time really and not all people would see it as bad news I don't think? But I think if its something you are very certain of you could tell her early on and if she is very against it you can both decide what is right for each of you.

I personally like discreet tattoos but I know a lot of people who like open and noticeable tattoos too.

And if I have misunderstood your question, sorry

[Maximuswood]

That helps.l, but I'm asking when, not how. Cause some girls dont care, some do, and her and her and this and that. So, what about a girl who is too busy in her life to deal with someone she ain't gonna want to be with cause of some tattoos, that she dont like. How do I respect her, and how much time or how many dates should I give myself a chance without screwing her over for a month Edited May 20, 2017 by Maximuswood

[Guest blumonkey]

tattoos are like burning man because

people spend an inordinate amount of time talking about it before it happens, and then after it happens

 

I've been in an uncountable number of conversations with people talking about tattoos they plan on getting... mention it in passing and don't worry so much!

[KittyKittyBoBitty]

Id say if you're definite on getting them, tell them upfront. If they are going to judge you should know sooner than later. Once you have them everyone will know right away anyway