Feeling lonely because my Daddy Dom doesn't have time for me.

[xxShayxx]

Hi, everyone. So, I'll try to keep this short. I have been talking online with a Daddy Dominant for the past two months. Three weeks ago, he officially asked me to be his little. When we talk, he treats me well and I enjoy his company. The problem is, well, he seems to always be busy. I haven't conplained to him because I know he will just find it annoying. I try to occupy my little side as much as I can, but lately all I want is to forget about my home life and spend time with him. If there are any littles who read this, I would love to be friends! I have kik, skype, and snapchat. But I would also like to hear some opinions fron experienced Daddy Doms. Am I being too obsessive? If not, how can I address this with him? Thanks. ❤❤

[DeathMetalPrincess]

Well I'm not going to tell you to just get over it, because we little can be very, very needy sometimes. We need constant love and care and attention from out caregivers. But as with any relationship, there has to be some give and take, as well as communication! Tell your daddy how you feel! Tell him you feel lonely and need more attention than he's giving you! By the same token, however, you need to understand it can be hard being a caregiver. It takes a lot of energy and a lot of effort. I would really talk to him and let him know how you're feeling, and maybe make a schedule that would work for both of you so you two have time to spend with each other, whether it's as a CGl couple or not.

[Princess-P]

Its not annoying to tell someone how you feel. Its only annoying if you nag them constantly for attention when they are busy.

 

Ask yourself why is he busy? Is it work? Or is he only talking to you when its convenient for him? Does he always want you to be in little more or does he also know you as an adult?

 

All you can do is ask him. If he was never busy before and now always has an excuse about being busy maybe he's lost some interest and your a convenience. Or maybe something has come up and your over reacting. Ask him. He's the only one who knows.

[Guest Fros†beard]

I agree with Princess-P.

One important thing to consider, I think, is if this only started after you got together.
If so, it's a little bit sketchy. It's not unusual to be talking to several people at the same time if you're looking, of course, but one needs to make sure everyone understands they're already in a relationship as soon as it happens.

[Nymph]

Hmm, have you guys made any plans to meet in person? it doesn't have to be right away (specially if you are far) but if you are already in a relationship this is important to talk about if you are both serious about this. Unless this is going to be online only, in which case it has already been covered and you need to work on adjusting things so it doesn't get in his way with work but your needs are being met. If he is particularly stressed due work or family issues please remember it is also a little's job to help daddy relax.

 

Would you say you have too much free time? if so, try to find a new hobby or ask him if he would be ok with helping you figure out a schedule to keep you busy. I personally lovelovelove schedules and chore lists, it makes me feel accomplished and like I am pleasing Daddy without without the need of much input through the day. It also gives us something to talk about when he is finally free. This however does take a bit of time to plan, I suggest you discuss this over a weekend or whenever he will have enough time for a long conversation or two.

[Guest PrincessLilith]

Yeah i agree, although i find myself always in littlespace.  i love constant attention...   -.-   but then again i do have a atention disorder...   lol adhd so also makes it hard with my mental disorders too.  sp 90% of the time i just dont say nothing till daddy msg's.. dont wanna be annoying. no matter how im feeling.. which is why i am trying to get more little friends.  so not as annoying..  and i really dont have anyone else to talk to about this lifestyle. ;/

[Guest girlyprincess]

hiiii! i totally, 100%, absolutely get what u mean cus I have school during the day and my daddy works nights so we only have a few hours to really talk at all and lots of time during the day idk what to do with myself because it feels lonely being little by myself. You should kik me if u want company tho! my kik is xxxerikanatalie

[plumflower]

I'm actually going through this right now. I'm a VERY  needy little and my Daddy knows it. He tries his best to give me all his reassurance and time but I have come to realize that I am so "dramatic" in my neediness. I do work and that helps keeps me busy as well as other hobbies. I find that writing my Daddy letters when I miss him and leaving them on his skype helps me get through the long hours of being away from him and sometimes it just helps to...I don't know... alleviate the longing I have for him. My Daddy and I are in an LDR, as we are on opposite coast, and we talk about plans before bed, we also set aside set hours to do something together. Lately it's watching Netflix before bed.