Looking for advice ^^

[Cuppcakes73]

Hello, I'm an 18 year old female, My boyfriend is 20. I've been thinking about making our relationship DDLG but, I'm so new to all of it xD. I've asked him about it and he said he'd be open to try it, but honestly I wouldn't know where to start or what to do. I've felt like I've wanted to do this for awhile. I love to relax in my room and color, talk in a childish voice. I own onesies , many stuffed animals. That's all i beg for when holidays come around xD. I carry blankets around and I really would like to own a Binki and a Sippy cup, but I' m nervous my mom would find it weird. She already questions the onesies , bu ti tell her it just keeps me warm ouo lol. He tells me things like, people i should talk to, and is very protective when we go out in public, and protective when we play video games online. My mom thought it was kind of controlling, but I honestly like when he acts that way and it makes me feel safe. I don't know if that's weird o,o. I just guess I kind of want to know how everyone got started on their relationships, and any advice anyone would have. Right now me and him are long distance, He came to live with me for awhile but we decided we want to get our own place where his family lives so he went back home to look for an apartment for us. So long distance DDLG tips and Irl tips would be useful. :3 thank you

[Guest Fros†beard]

Long-distance means you'll have to get creative with tasks, rewards, and punishments.
Do you both have a webcam? That helps a ton. My ex and I were LD as well as ddlg and so she'd have me pick out her clothes for the day and stuff like that. Sometimes I'd make her go to work without panties on. Spanking, I find, just doesn't have the same effect if the little has to do it to themselves, but who knows, maybe it'd work for you. He could still read you bedtime stories and hey, it's surprisingly nice to fall asleep together on a video chat! No funsies has been a staple in LD relationships, from what I understand, and the wait makes the eventual, shared webcam / voice experience so much better.

There's some stuff off the top of my head, hope it helps!