I came out as a little to my partner~!!!

[Smol_Dollanganger]

So I've been dating my boyfriend for awhile, now it's been half a year and I couldn't be happier with him. Soon after dating, I was talking to my close friend and she explained little space and what littles were and then it dawned on me that I was a little myself. Now at first, I was confused. Thinking to myself "am I really a little or do I just think I am?" After days of thinking I've come to the conclusion that I might actually be one. I did before enjoy calling my partner the name Daddy and would act like a child when I wanted to act spoiled. But I lacked the courage to tell him. I worried that it would drive him away or see it as weird. I wasn't ashamed of what I was, but I feared the worst if I opened my mouth. I kept it a secret for the longest time it seems which was hard. He would make comments some days saying how I acted like a child sometimes and would laugh about it and hug me. I started to try to call him Daddy more often and would act like a little more often, as far as I saw it didn't bother him, he continued to talk to me normally as he would and would act the same. But despite seeing this, I was still too terrified to say anything.

I work at a restaurant/store and being an old style place the only people that would come in would be just regular people you see every day. Until one night working, only a few minutes before closing, a couple came to me to pay and the guy was buying a coloring book from our store, beside him was a short girl in a dress. She seemed very happy and was holding his hand. She pulled on his shirt and he leaned to her. I couldn't quite hear her but her voice was soft. After exchanging a few words he paid for the book and handed it to her, her smile grew more and she ran to the door to exit. The guy told me thank you and he turned away, walked to the girl saying "Don't go out that door without me princess". As I saw she quickly stopped and waited for him. He took her hand and said goodnight to me before leaving the store. Now it is an old store I was quite surprised they would be there and not saying they were but I had a feeling I've finally seen someone else who was a little with their partner. I got the sudden urge to message my little friend and tell her what I saw, she agreed with me and said I was lucky to meet someone who was a little. After seeing this couple so happy in person, I knew I had to tell mine. I couldn't hide it forever.

I texted him explaining, even though I was shaking the whole time I was explaining, I finally told him what I was. Confused at first he asked me what it was. Me being nervous I was terrible at explaining, my little friend came to help explain which was a lot better than mine. After that he came to me and told me he knew what it was and understood, I got the biggest smile on my face I've ever had. He then told me he at first found it a little weird never hearing anything about this but after seeing my smile and knowing how much it would make me happy he told me he would be my Daddy. 

Now he is planning on buying my coloring books and having play dates with me and I couldn't be any happier ^-^   

 

 

Sorry for the long story~ I went off into so much detail lol If you are struggling to express who you are to your partner, all I can say is, if they really love you and care for you, they would do anything for you and would be happy to as long as it makes you happy 

[SkunkPrincess]

Awwh, thats very nice to hear! I'm super duper happy for you!

[TeddyBearHeart]

I'm so happy for you, sweetie! <3 Air hugs!