*Trigger Warning* Please reply to this! help!

[Guest Daddy'sBabyGirl2017]

okay so im talking to someone and he knows i have a baby..but not that she just passed away..should i tell him...if so how should i..i feel so useless and helpless...bc she died in my care..how can i not feel this way

 

RIP Alyssa Ward momma misses you baby

[Daddybloo]

you tell him when your ready but hopefully before it gets to serious no one can really tell you when or how as death affects everyone differently and so can when or how you tell someone else 

[Guest Fros†beard]

Firstly, I'm so sorry.
I'm a father myself and I can't even imagine what you must be going through right now.

Secondly, tell him when you feel comfortable enough.
This shouldn't be a dealbreaker to anyone (if, however it is, they'd probably be the kind of person you wouldn't want to be with anyway), so I don't see why you'd be in a hurry. Take your time. Heal. Get back up on your legs and don't force anything.

I wish you the best.

[KysKitten]

I lost my daughter about a year ago, I completely understand. Once I told my husband I felt so much better. He let me talk to him about it, he made it so thatI could cry to him about it when I needed to. If you really care about him theres no wrong time to tell him what happened. He should accept you and help you cope. That's what a good daddy does.

( Memory Of: Juliet Anastasia)

[Guest PrincessLilith]

Im a mother of 2 children. AND I RLLY SYMPATHIZE.. that is my worse FEAR. on top of not ever being able to see my children. so  DAMN i am soooooooo sorry. ID GIVE U A BIG HUG AND HOLD YOU!!!!  but yes. tell him when you are perfectly ready. if you 2 are ment to  be and he is good understanding daddy HE WILL UNDERSTAND>  IM thankful my daddy understand completely. esp since i strugle with it and my mental disorders an dlittle space.. x.x all very hard for me.   (i might add i also only get to see my 9 yr old girl once a year and only get to talk to her every 3 months. if that.  her fatherss an  MEANIEFACE BUTTHEAD)  even though its not the same but sometimes deepdown i feel it is... i get soo lost without her...

[Guest Daddy'sBabyGirl2017]

thanks guys i told him and he totally understood!!

[MidnightWolfie]

Oh my god.. I'm so sorry to hear this.. I have a baby niece and I have no idea what i'd do if something happened to her. Once again i'm so sorry to hear that.