Requesting Support/Friendship

[Guest AnandaLove]

I have a man who loves me very, very much and he tells me so every day and most often multiple times a day

I hope to get general support for my journey into being a little and friendship with other littles

Edited May 15, 2017 by AnandaLove

[ChibiPuppy]

Some people are born submissive. Pride and past experiences makes it hard to sometimes let go, but once you do it's a dream. What I suggest you do is that you allow him to do smaller things, over time, that are typically dominant things that will allow you to ''learn'' to submit. Although that should only really happen if you truly want to and he isn't forcing it on you (which is kind of sounds like he does). As for being ''big'' and getting past that, all you have to do is let yourself go. Sit down with a plushie, a coloring book or a fun cartoon and just relax. Laugh at the stupid jokes, enjoy the smell of the crayons or just chatter to your stuffie. It may feel stupid at first, but if you're truly a little by heart, this stuff will feel right once you give it a chance. Let go, trust your man and be the submissive.

I firmly believe that a dom is not necessarily the one in control though. While a dom makes decisions and is obviously the one in control during certain ''acts'', their man concern should be the health and happiness of their sub. You, as the sub, control the dom more than you probably realize and communication, openly, about what you both want, how you view the whole dynamic and what you think you can expect from each is key. Help each other develop, don't just accept that he is ''waiting'' for you. Ask him to help you get into that mindset if that's what you want. Work as a couple, as a team. Both as dom/sub, and as daddy/little.

I also want to add that dom/sub dynamics don't always go hand in hand with DD/lg. Just a little personal thought.

[LittleRae]

OOH PICK ME. I WANNA BE FRIENDS. owo