Sooooooo

[PINKLILLY]

[Atticus]

I think that if the person is as predatory as you say, that you should probably distance yourself from them and find some way of warning away others. A person like that could be very unstable, and you might be risking your safety by toying with them.

 

It's surprisingly easy to discover a person's real identity online, and someone like that could obsess over it, pouring over every post you've ever made, every picture you've ever sent them, every conversation you've had with them, etc. It's difficult to spot every way a person could connect the dots, so in my opinion it's safer not to take the risk.

[Guest Bosscake]

I would agree with KevinLloyd. To play along with a person (man) who is manipulative and lonely is potentially dangerous. I understand what you want to do but you might only see the top of the iceberg here. If you get this feeling from him when you are being "nice" it might turn  a lot more ugly when you say no. So watch out for yourself. The moral aspect of it I guess is that it is not very nice to lie to anyone either, even if they seem to be bad people. You might feed his already existing misogyni when he realizes. Not saying that he is a mysoginist but it is not an uncommon trait among lonely manipulative men preying on young girls on the internet. 

[Princess-P]

How do you know he's intentionally trying to manipulate you? Its possibly he's just completely misguided about the different ways this dynamic is played out.

 

He could have stumbles across it on a tumble blog that depicts a little girl who does everything her DD says and has given over to a complete power exchange. He could also be under the wrong assumption that identifying as a Dom means every one with a sub title must obey him.

 

Essentially this could be a case of someone being uneducated.

 

By toying with him you are basically giving him what he wants. I'm not saying its your place to educate him, but the actual smart thing to do would be to refuse him, block and delete. Even if your only giving in for a short time because you think its payback or whatever.. He's still gaining pleasure by thinking he's having his way for real. And when you eventually stop, he's just going to move on to the next one and really never give you a second thought. So the only persons time your wasting is your own. That seems rather foolish to me.

[Guest Candy Minx ♡]

wouldn't say littles are the most beautiful type of women, hate to take someone

out of the race cause they don't enjoy what we do.

 

as for intentionally leading someone on, even if you think they're being manipulative

and what not, is awful. like princess said, they may have a different understanding 

of the dynamic than you do, everyone does it differently so it may be just that. you 

can't really assume - and you're just wasting your time. he's getting the benefit

out of this and as a whole you really shouldn't lead anyone on. it's mean and

it's something that reflects on you.

 

don't consider it a project for finding out what makes a 'fake' DD, if you have common

sense and are educated about the dynamic and have an idea of what you want -- at

the end of the day it's just another type of relationship. use your skills that you would

to figure out that a guy/girl is an asshole. having that collective should keep you set,

living this lifestyle doesn't magically change the fact we're still human.

 

& imagine if he wasn't being the way you describe and is actually legit about it, that

makes you the one being manipulative and conniving? i personally think you're going

about it in a wrong way. if he truly is an asshole then you could communicate your

concerns at him or block, delete, walk away, and forget it. i mean just cause he's doing

wrong doesn't mean you need to?

Edited May 13, 2017 by Candy Minx ♡

[PINKLILLY]

How do you know he's intentionally trying to manipulate you? Its possibly he's just completely misguided about the different ways this dynamic is played out.

 

He could have stumbles across it on a tumble blog that depicts a little girl who does everything her DD says and has given over to a complete power exchange. He could also be under the wrong assumption that identifying as a Dom means every one with a sub title must obey him.

 

Essentially this could be a case of someone being uneducated.

 

By toying with him you are basically giving him what he wants. I'm not saying its your place to educate him, but the actual smart thing to do would be to refuse him, block and delete. Even if your only giving in for a short time because you think its payback or whatever.. He's still gaining pleasure by thinking he's having his way for real. And when you eventually stop, he's just going to move on to the next one and really never give you a second thought. So the only persons time your wasting is your own. That seems rather foolish to me.

 

Very good point. Thank you for the advice !