Questions to Ask a New CG?

[LittleCrow]

So recently I've been talking to an old friend of mine who is very curious in becoming a Daddy to me (I am a little girl.) and I was wondering, what would be some good questions to ask him?

Like I've been having him do research and stuff so he can learn little by little about the lifestyle and I thought it'd be a good idea to quiz him.

and The questions don't even have to be CGL specific... Just any questions. Of course I would like some based around CGL, BDSM and D/s. But others like financial, personality, and etc would be nice.

 

Any ideas?

[A Cuddly Dom]

A good place to start is to discuss consent, safewords, hard limits, aftercare, and the like in detail to see what those things mean to him. It doesn't have to be a quiz. Try just sitting down and having a few conversations. There's always an opportunity for everyone to learn more.

[Princess-P]

While having him research the synamicon his own is all well and good a quiz doesn't really make sense. Because the dynamic is so different to each person there's not too many things that you can ask that have a right or wrong answer.

 

I would suggest just having a conversation about what he feels the dynamic means to him. What aspects he's interested in. What he would expect from a partner and what they can expect from him.

 

If you have similar feeling about the dynamic talking back and forth will give you a stronger bond.

[LittleCrow]

Hmm okie, makes sense. I guess you're both right. A quiz wouldn't be the best way to put it. I guess really, I just want to make sure he knows basic terms, lifestyles in D/s-BDSM and I'd like to know how stable he is personally. Ya know?