Littles and drinking

[CleoDam]

Now I'm not talking about H2o here, hydration is no joke (v/ serious), I mean alcohol   

I'm curious as to what the general consensus is on littles and drinking, this question being posed to littles and caregivers alike. 

 

Being quite fresh to the scene I can only speak on limited knowledge, but it seems there's some controversy (or at least opposing views)  on this topic. I'd love to hear your thoughts 

 

[Guest Fros†beard]

While the night can be a lot of fun, everyone's always more or less down in the dumps the day after.
In fact, if I recall correctly, it takes your brain three whole days to regain balance. What I'm trying to get to here is, adults can and will drink if they feel like it.  However, you should always keep in mind the consequences of partying. A hungover little indeed provides an excellent change for the CG to, well, give care, but possible mental health issues can cause some problems when mixed with alcohol and the resulting low-quality rest. As with so many other things, I find that moderation is key.

Not pretending to be any kind of saint here, but saying this as a former alcoholic.

[LittleGem]

Hello ! I thought about this a lot as well >...< from my point of view- this is only my opinion- I don't find it very 'little' to drink and get drunk >..< I generally don't like alcohol's affect on myself or other people to begin with - I guess I'm kinda anti alcohol when in large quantities >..< drunk people scare me okie ;_;

 

So as a little and just an adult I don't drink (a lot - I enjoy the taste of some alcohol but in small amounts) and don't like to surround myself with people who are drinking, ddlg or not. I find the behaviour and actions of people who drink very anti little (from my personal perspective - I am not saying littles shouldn't drink or they are any less little for drinking- this is only my opinion)

 

Sorry if I repeated myself a lot, just didn't want to offend anyone and sorry if I did *hides in corner*

[Guest DaddyDom2017]

This subject has come up before among my friends, drinking Alcohol by a Little is not a good thing, ever.

 

That being said, on special occasions a drink may be OK, like when Adult Mode and Vacationing in Jamaica , but even then, when in Little Mode, drinking is not OK.

 

Getting Drunk at any Stage is not OK, for Daddy or Little......JMHO

[Pekorin]

Same as non Little people, keep yourself safe but drinking reasonably is fine, I'm a little and I like beer and wine, if as a person you don't like alcohol because of whatever reason you don't want anything with it then same as a Little and if you like alcohol as a person but not as a Little fine, but if you think that because you're a Little you don't have the right to drink then not fine in my opinion

 

I only drink when I'm with large groups and we're having a dinner or we're partying though, and around people I feel safe, I also never get drunk I know when to stop

 

I don't drink in Little Space if that's what you were asking but I guess as long as you're safe do whatever you want ?

 

If it's a personal choice then don't drink but if someone's telling you not to because they don't like it and you want it and you are safe then drink, I really think all that matters here is whether you want it or not and whether you are safe.

[glgkittykat99]

hmmm well i tend to not drink very much anyways (at least not in my opinion) but my daddy says as long as i don't drink too much and 

but depending on the setting sometimes he doesn't let me have any

like if we're at a big party and stuffs

[Guest Candy Minx ♡]

You're an adult first. Doesn't matter if you're little or not, drinking is fine. It's preference on how and when you decide to do it. It's not unlittle like. People are going to get drunk and what not. I generally don't see the reasoning why people think that because you're in cg/l that you have to do certain things differently from being a vanilla adult in a vanilla relationship.

 

As long as you're an adult and you're knowing what you're doing it's fine. Drink, smoke, do any of the other things I've seen people ask if it was okay to participate in because you're a little.

 

Me being a little will never stop me from doing what I will with myself and it'd be foolish to let it stop anyone else. I understand that everyone does cg/l differently but again, you're an adult first.

 

&&& id honestly be kinda chill on saying what's littlelike or not cause everyone is different. Would be shame for learning little and caregivers to come around and see people saying what they're doing is 'unlittle like', so. Phrasing that better. 'It doesn't make me feel little' vs 'it's very unlittle like'.

Edited May 12, 2017 by Candy Minx ♡

[CleoDam]

Thank you for all of your replies!! You all bring up a lot of good points! 

[Guest Cuppycakelol]

It's

Also a matter of rules what rules you and your daddy have set.

[Guest MeneerM]

Even though my little could be of legal age.. Alcohol drinking is strictly forbidden by my rules. So my little is not allowed to drink alcohol...

[Guest bad_apple]

I drink a glass of wine or beer now and again. I don't have a rule against it and I know my Daddy doesn't have a problem with it.

[SkunkPrincess]

My daddy strictly forbids me to drink alcohol or smoke (weed)

[Strawberry Sprinkles]

I can drink whenever I want as long as I'm in a safe environment and if it's not a form of self mediating (i.e. drinking because I'm depressed). Even though you noted there was some controversy about the topic, I don't think it is the reason it would be shunned in the general population's actions. Everyone brings something different to a dynamic and no two dynamics are just alike. Everyone has their own rules and allowances with different reasons. You want to drink? Drink! If it's not for you, that's okay too. Just make sure your Caregiver is okay with it! 

[lil_kitty_emmy]

I don't drink much generally, but I'd imagine it has something to do with Daddy's or Mommy's rules. But, like you I'm new, so I'm not sure.

[kittybaby]

I love a glass of wine or two after a long day. But my daddy is pretty straight edge so he's ok with with me having a little wine but not hard liquor or beer and theres a lot of rules. But he sure does love the way I act after my second glass teehee. I buy it cheap and sweet so its my "juice"

[Hisprincesss]

I always ask and he lets me

[Needy4neediness]

She is allowed to drink if she keeps an eye on her drink too but we both rearly drink though

[HarleyLipstick]

Hi um I'm a little and I don't have a Daddy but I think you should only drink naughty stuff if you really really want to not just because you can, I think it depends lots on the little though and if they feel happy to do it x K bye x

[chubbylilwolfcub]

As we have seen many times on this site there is no one true way to be a little.

 

For me personally I very much enjoy a glass of cheap wine in my sippy cup. It makes me feel extra little and very sleepy and silly and my Daddy takes great care of me sober or not. However, I don't drink currently because it interacts with my meds in a not so great way. I also work about 60-70 hours a week and have an infant, so even if I have the time to let loose and have fun, I can't really afford the time it takes to sober up. Life keeps moving wether I am ready or not.

 

I know it's very controversal for some, but I would honestly rather smoke. It puts me into little space and gives me that sleepy/silly feeling without the iinability tofuntction properly for the rest of the night or the hangover the next morning.

 

But again, there is no right or wrong. Whether you as a little drink is really up to you and your CG and what you have deemed to be healthy and safe for you.

Edited June 7, 2017 by chubbylilwolfcub

[littlecl13]

i'm a newer little and i've never had a daddy, but i do really enjoy drinking. if i'm feeling little, i'll most likely drink cheap wine from my favorite batman cup. otherwise i also like dark beers and whiskey, but i don't feel as little with those. 

 

i used to drink A LOT, so i've really cut back recently. just trying to be healthier and all that c:

[HisuianLilligant]

Neither me nor my daddy drink, it's actually one of my rules