Advice on switch

[Guest LittleKenzie1]

Hihi everyone, so i was reading, and i think i need advice on what exactly a Switch who is more little but still acts semi mommy like is!!! thanks bunches~!!!

[Little.Wolf]

Switches come in various degrees. They can be 50/50, 30/70, 10/90 in terms of what is more dominant. The bottom line for me is that switches are people who enjoy both of the sides, and it's the best of both words. (I am a switch too!)

[alotalittle]

Totally agree with Little.Wolf. Switches come in all kinds of shapes and forms. Some people switch the dynamic within their relationship, some people feel dominant with one partner and submissive with another, some people need to switch, some people enjoy switching sometimes, some people can switch but don't need to, some people switch because their partner enjoys it, etc. There's tons of different kinds of switches and there's no wrong way to be a switch.

 

I'm a switch who started out as being a sub. Once I entered into the realm of switching, I felt like I had really found my place. I can't imagine going back to being only a submissive or leading my life only being a Domme. I feel at my best when I get to enjoy both worlds with the person that I love most. I get immense pleasure out of being submissive to him and I get immense pleasure out of being his Domme. I consider myself to almost be 50/50 (possibly more like 60/40 leaning towards submissive?), but at this point, I don't think those numbers mean much to me. I want both of those aspects to be in my life, so they have nearly equal value to me.

[UK_daddy_Rob]

For me switching offers the best of both worlds and while I am 90% Dom my sub side is particularly submissive when I open up to it/others are able to lead well and allow me to find my sub space for them to 'exploit'...

There is also the fact that being a switch gives you an understanding of how it feels in both roles so you are able to be a better Dom/sub because you truly understand how it should be.