A little caregiving in return?

[PINKLILLY]

[Guest JoeKarr]

Best thing a Little can give her daddy is attention.  That doesn't take cash, just time.  Cuddles, kisses and snuggles are the best.

 

As for space...has he asked for it?  I mean if he's asked for it, I'd keep things as is.  But, the how much part of the question could be answered by just talking with you Daddy.

[PINKLILLY]

Thank you for your advice ! I appreciate it.

I Asked about how much space I should give him, because I don't want to overwhelm him. I used to typical dating, this is my first DDLG experience, so I guess I'm thinking in terms the same rules apply? " not too much at once " .. no he hasn't asked for space, but I want to accommodate him & please him, without him having to tell me what exactly to do or what he likes all the time!

[kissingkitten]

Hai. Some days if i am feeling extra needy i jus come right out and say it up front.

 

"Hai Daddy, awe chu busy??? I don knows why but im feewing extra needy for chu right now. I loves chu. Can i cuddles wit chu or should i wait till later? I knows chu awe busy so i will wait if needed cuz i wan to be chur good girl. Is it otay if i need chus right now?"

 

This seems to work for me and daddy. I am not demanding attention and yet letting him know im needy. If he is too busy at that moment he can tell me so and i will be a good girl and be respectful of that. But usually if daddy knows im needy for some reason he will make time for me.

 

Hope this helps chu. Every one is different so adjust it as you need to.

 

Huggles~

[LittlePupRune]

Attention is really good, also if you have certain things you are supposed to do (like daily chores or assignments) doing them before your caregiver even reminds you. Saying thank you and please without being reminded. Maybe telling them outright that you appreciate what they do. Honestly, its the little things that are the sweetest. If you want, a tiny gift, say you see something in like the dollar store that you know they'd get a kick out of and you wanna do that, that'd also be really appreciated.

[Princess-P]

Its important that littles also take care of their caregivers. We do this in different ways. I personally take on the house work, always pack my Daddy's work clothes, rub his back/shoulders, always cook his dinner when I'm not working, keep his life stress free by more than pulling my weight financially, and giving him lots of space to do things he enjoys without me.

 

Basically making sure his stress levels are low, and his physical, mental, and emotional health are all taken care of.