How to be ddlg and a parent?

[Harley_Quinn]

If there's a topic please point me in that direction but:

How can me and daddy still be daddy and little and be parents? Like how can I have playtime toys and sippy cups and pacis when my son will have the same things? And how can daddy treat me like a little without it seeming weird?

[Princess-P]

I believe there are a lot of threads about being a parent while in the dynamic. And many littles and bugs here who are parents.

 

Its really not difficult at all. My Daddy and I were part of the dynamic and had our relationship all figured out before we had our daughter. We adjusted small things as needed to be more private as our daughter grew and became more aware. She's 6 now and we still participate in the lifestyle 24/7.

 

You just have to find what works best for the two of you and be open to change as your new family dynamic changes and grows.

[Sparklefrosting]

The hardest thing for me has been limiting little behaviors around my son like using cute names for things or toddler utensils. You have to be the good example of what a "big kid" is but you can still play like little best buddies which is awesome. You can do those limited activities during your childs sleep time and or when he/she is with a sitter. 

[Abstraction]

Don't forget that whatever your child grows up around is just normal for them. They have no concept of what their parents "should" be. When they get to be older, they'll think their parents are weird, but would no matter what the dynamic.