A question for a shy friend!

[ChibiPuppy]

Hi!

I have a friend who is very shy about reaching out about who they are but I am trying to help them out.

See, they are unsure about their gender. They feel more femme than not, but they are not necessarily trans. They want to think of themselves as a LG, but feel like a fraud since they were biologically born a boy. I've tried to explain it doesn't matter what they seem to be, but it's all about who they want to be. However, they say they could feel more comfortable if it was just with that one person who they trust and love and within the confines of their own home. Problem is that they are also asexual and is struggling not only to find a partner over all, but an asexual one who'd be okay with being a daddy/mommy for them. Not to mention they are not sure they'd want to be a Little full time.

Now, the question is... Is this forum the right place for them to reach out and look for someone, or do you guys have other alternatives or suggestions as to what they can do and where they can look? They are very shy, so I offered to ask this for them to begin with.

Thanks all, we both appreciate any responses!

[Guest Cutecumber]

Bring 'em on over. As an LG who is genderfluid/non-binary, I completely understand where that uncertainty comes from. This community is very accepting

[alotalittle]

I think that they would fit right in here! From my experience, this site seems trans/non-binary/genderfluid/etc friendly. My partner is genderfluid (though only presents himself as male in public) and I understand that there's a lot of difficulties surrounding gender identity. Also, I know there's several asexual people on the site and many sexual people who do not have a sexual CG/l dynamic. I think that most of us here would be happy to have another Little among us and would love to answer any questions that your friend has and welcome them to the community.

Edited May 9, 2017 by alotalittle