So nervous!

[PINKLILLY]

I don't know how to interact, I tend to be very awkward ... I've never had a daddy & I just joined this site yesterday. Do any littles have any advice they could give me !? Things to look out for as far As creeps etc. What a genuine daddy would say to me, or how he would approach me. I would greatly appreciate it !

[DaddyPJ]

Hello Pink Lilly never feel awkward i was like that when i first joined then i just joined and got along fine.

Being a daddy myself i would ask how you are and how you are feeling i would never ask personal questions.

Most people on here are genuine as far as i know there are not any creeps on here if you need anymore advice feel free to ask i will help in any way i can.

Take Care Daddy PJ

[alotalittle]

The community here is--for the most part--very nice, very welcoming, and not full of creeps. So that's good news

 

As far as what a genuine daddy would say to you, I think it should be close to whatever a genuine person would say to you. If you're looking for a daddy, the best place to start with someone is building a friendship and learning about each other. Becoming someone's daddy or little usually takes some time and effort in building the foundations of any good relationship first. Red flags would be things like someone asking for nudes very quickly, only wanting to talk about sex, wanting you to call them daddy from the beginning, wanting to claim ownership to you from the very beginning, pushing your boundaries beyond what you want, asking about things you don't feel comfortable with, etc. 

 

For me, I felt super awkward when I first joined the site. I wasn't quite sure how to interact or what to do. I started answering/responding to topics on here and occasionally using the chat room and before I knew it, I felt at home here. I hope you enjoy being a part of the community!

[Guest MeneerM]

I totally agree with alotalittle. The reflags are as stated. Someone needs to be your friend first before anything else!

[Guest PrincessLilith]

yes im socially awkward too and very bad social anxiety... i almost never speak unless spoken too. and being a little sucks abit cuz were supposed to be open with our feelings. and thats not something im comfortable with.

[Guest PrincessLilith]

and being new here im abit unsure hoe to go about getting to kniw ppl. or *gasps* letting ppl in to know me. been hurt alot abandond so its very hard for me.

[HisuianLilligant]

I have social anxiety and am socially awkward due to autism but after I made a personal and talked to a few daddies I ended up with the bestest daddy ever!

[TheDaddyest]

       My advice about the anxiety is to take some deep breaths and try not to think of the worst case scenario when it comes to dealing with daddies or littles. That doesn't mean let your guard down around daddies. That would be terrible advice. But things like worrying about how people perceive you, over-explaining things because you are worried about messing (I'm very guilty of this haha) and reading into things or reading too much into things that are probably not as bad as it seems between you and a person (Daddy or little or anyone really) are really good habits and behaviors to try and strive for. 

 

     Even being aware of these things and actively working on doing them anxiety still can over-power you. You need to be able to understand it's ok to slip up and let anxiety get the best of you. And if your anxiety does overwhelm someone on this site or in real life and it does push them away it's ok because there are a lot of people on here and there will always be another chance to make a friend. 

 

     I don't know if this is helpful but It's the advice I give myself.