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[littlealiceinwonderland]

I have read a lot about the ddlg lifestyle and have decided it is definitely something I want. I am having so much trouble trying to find a Daddy that wants more than to just turn it into sex. Does the dynamic actually exsist or is it just wishful thinking on my part?

[Guest MeneerM]

The Dynamic exists, although  not everyone has the same interpretation of DD/lg. For some it is a kinky way of having sex, for others it is more a way of communicating and caring for each other and all the forms in-between.

You will have to find a partner which has the same kinds of expectations of DD/lg as you have. Don't waste your time on Daddy's who have different views on the subject and keep looking.

The right Daddy is around somewhere. It is just like normal dating, but with a lot less people to choose from. Do not panic. A lot of DD/lg couples over de decades have found each other. You will too!

[Princess-P]

Once you are confident in what you want in a relationship you can post a personal stating EXACTLY what you expect. Also the caregiver/little dating pool is small. But many people are unaware they fit this dynamic. So keep your options open. You may find someone who believes they are vanilla on a regular dating site/work/the park/just about anywhere, and really they are a caregiver who just doesn't know it yet.

 

A lot of people find partners outside of the dynamic. Its probably more common actually.

[Guest MeneerM]

And even when you think you know what you want.... I was looking for another type of little then my little one actually is. But she opened a whole new world for me to explore and I love her to pieces. So try also to stay open for new challenges and opportunities.

[littlealiceinwonderland]

Thank you very much!