I don't know if I should be here?

[confusedlittle]

I don't know if I can say I'm into caregiver/little girl stuff because I love the idea of calling someone mommy or daddy and them "punishing" me and I'm super childish, but the thing is I couldn't be like that 24/7. It's just confusing for me, does anyone have any help in clearing this up for me a bit?

[Guest Ginger]

You don't have to be little 24/7. There's no rule book on how to be a Little or a Caregiver You do what suits you. If you only want it in the bedroom, that's A-Ok! If you believe you're a Little, you're a Little! Simple as that ^^ you don't have to behave a certain way or like certain things because everyone's different and each dynamic is unique.

 

Test the waters and find out what works best for you.

[confusedlittle]

You don't have to be little 24/7. There's no rule book on how to be a Little or a Caregiver You do what suits you. If you only want it in the bedroom, that's A-Ok! If you believe you're a Little, you're a Little! Simple as that ^^ you don't have to behave a certain way or like certain things because everyone's different and each dynamic is unique.

 

Test the waters and find out what works best for you.

thank you! I'm new to this community and even though I've always kind of felt like this it's still a lot to take in

[Guest Ginger]

thank you! I'm new to this community and even though I've always kind of felt like this it's still a lot to take in

Just take it a step at a time ^^ no need to jump off the deep end (unless you want to, of course).

[Guest Sephi]

There is no way I could live this lifestyle 24/7! I value both my Little and adult self. Everyone's experience with this lifestyle is unique.

[ChibiPuppy]

I totally understand your worries. I felt like that for quite a long time before I finally realized how simple it really is. Like the people above said you should value your own opinion and your own feelings in the matter; if you feel like a Little, then you're a Little. I personally am jealous of a lot of the Littles who can be Little far more often and easy than I can, those who can channel their child. I feel like I want to, but it's hard. I tend to just be Little when I feel down or I am very relaxed around my caregiver. Otherwise I take on my regular adult self even though I tend to hate doing that.

My point is that you can do it in your own way. If you're Little one hour a day, or one hour a week, that's your way. Just find things to assists you reinforce your feelings as a Little and to help you relax when you do enter ´''Littlespace''. I really do suggest you don't take in too much of what others do, especially from those who seem to do it easier or have a ''perfect'' DD/lg relationship in your eyes. Work it out for yourself and there will be little to no disappointments and you'll always be satisfied with your ''Littlespace''.

Hope that helped! ♥

[confusedlittle]

I totally understand your worries. I felt like that for quite a long time before I finally realized how simple it really is. Like the people above said you should value your own opinion and your own feelings in the matter; if you feel like a Little, then you're a Little. I personally am jealous of a lot of the Littles who can be Little far more often and easy than I can, those who can channel their child. I feel like I want to, but it's hard. I tend to just be Little when I feel down or I am very relaxed around my caregiver. Otherwise I take on my regular adult self even though I tend to hate doing that.

 

My point is that you can do it in your own way. If you're Little one hour a day, or one hour a week, that's your way. Just find things to assists you reinforce your feelings as a Little and to help you relax when you do enter ´''Littlespace''. I really do suggest you don't take in too much of what others do, especially from those who seem to do it easier or have a ''perfect'' DD/lg relationship in your eyes. Work it out for yourself and there will be little to no disappointments and you'll always be satisfied with your ''Littlespace''.

 

Hope that helped! ♥

Thank you so much! It's nice to know other people are like this too!