You just met me? Um.. don't say you're "Daddy"

[TeddyBearHeart]

I HATE THIS WITH A BURNING PASSION.

 

Like, I have Daddy friends who do it out of habit, and they apologize immediately when I mention it and usually don't let it happen again; that, I understand.

 

But assuming I'm your little just because I wrote you back? Nah, not gonna happen! I don't wanna hear what you wanna do to me and how sexy it is that I look like a 12-year-old. It's creepy, not in the fun Tim Burton kind of way, but the pedophilic stalker way. The thirst is too real with these guys.

 

I am honestly considering switching to an all-vagina diet.

[TeddyBearHeart]

*Disclaimer: Ya can be a slut if you want to. It isn't derogatory or ill-mannered, it is just a word. Be a slut, don't be a slut, be YOU

PREACH!

 

With Love,

 

A Slut

Edited May 7, 2017 by PillowPrincessAngel

[Guest Cutecumber]

I HATE THIS WITH A BURNING PASSION.

Like, I have Daddy friends who do it out of habit, and they apologize immediately when I mention it and usually don't let it happen again; that, I understand.

But assuming I'm your little just because I wrote you back? Nah, not gonna happen! I don't wanna hear what you wanna do to me and how sexy it is that I look like a 12-year-old. It's creepy, not in the fun Tim Burton kind of way, but the pedophilic stalker way. The thirst is too real with these guys.

I am honestly considering switching to an all-vagina diet.

Im with you there, lovely. Vaginas are better anyway LOL

[Guest Derptronic]

So, in my experience the inverse of OP's complaint happens all the time: littles jumping up into the lap of any guy calling himself Daddy. I think these dick-forward pseudo daddys are being conditioned through positive reinforcement to keep being presumptive until they find the next little showing a complete lack of discernment.

 

As an aside:

 

It is also frustrating to me that many littles think you want to be *their* Daddy just because you happen to identify as DD. Like, we can't have a normal friendship without it being about creating a dynamic. That's disappointing.

 

I'm not about to adopt every little I meet on the internet no matter how awesome. It's a lot of damn responsibility being a Daddy and there's only so much energy I can summon. /rant

[Guest Dulci]

YUP! I feel ya. 

Or when people decide to tell me off in the first few seconds of a text chat because I said something they think a "little" should not say. I've just met you, think I'm going to share my most vulnerable state, my little space, with you right away? Nope. 

 

I once had a guy set down rules in the second or third message. I was like... what? No. 

[I_AM_THE_SENATE]

See, as a dude i read things like this and I'm like wtf were you even thinking?!

Like why do people think this stuff is first or even early message material? 

[Guest Sirchristo1]

I have very strong feelings on this topic, guys who do this (wont even give them the title of daddy's) I feel are generally looking for one thing and there are littles who do the same. I am Daddy to one Little and she is the only person that I call Princess or any of the other pet names that I use, she is also the only person allowed to call me Daddy. I'm the only Daddy and she is the only Princess and that also goes beyond just the initial conversations with someone.

[boomslang]

I think of it as fishing.  They're tossing out bait and hoping for a bite.  Littles do it too.  And they wouldn't do it if it didn't work at least occasionally.

[Taken101]

See, I get this a lot as well. I join a website and while it's less than what a lot of littles and girls in general go through, just because I'm a young male doesn't mean I'm automatically going to have you as my little. Like seriously my account name says TAKEN. It's annoying and frankly a little disturbing as well.

[Guest SUeB]

It's worse on fetlife. My entire profile is all about my Daddy/Master. My profile picture is of me face down at His feet (that clearly show on the pic), i am clearly not available. Very vocally unavailable in fact, lol. But yep, i still get the occasional moron trying it on. Yawn....go away you stupid, ignorant little boy......

[squishy_snuggles]

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Edited August 23, 2022 by squishy_snuggles
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[mintypowder]

I've come across some people doesn't even bother beginning with a hello, just texts ''SEND ME YOUR CELL NUMBER !'' like, okay buddy keep calm, have a glass of cold water. Annoying.

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

Ugh.. the cringe of these Inbox creepers is so beyond words.

 

Guys who insist on pushing like that normally turn out to be predatory weirdos so my advice is always to Run as fast as you can in the opposite direction. Any Dom worth his spit knows submission is earned and not demanded. Submission is a gift... Period. Those guys aren't Daddies and they aren't Doms either.. just either heavily confused/uneducated on the dynamics or just creeps who want you to send them nudes. The uneducated ones normally will apologize when you correct them.. The creeps tell you you're a "fake little" and just get salty. Don't even get me started on the unwanted dick pics... Good lord. A random dick pic is no different than my cat bringing me a dead mouse.. It's great that they are happy with it, Wonderful that they are proud of it but there's no way in hell I am touching it.