Guide being a little??

[Guest Kittykat2342]

[Guest littleloveslars]

Everyone is different. There is no right way.

 

That being said the title little doesnt dismiss you from being an adult when you need to be and i think its super important for new littles to hear that.

 

Good luck.

[Guest mlkykit]

1. There are no set directions for being a Little; find what suits you and roll with that. Some Littles like to colour, others like stuffies and wear diapers; what do you like? As @littleloveslars said above, what being a Little does not include is shirking adult responsibilities. Caregivers do not and will never serve to be adults for you, that's your job.

 

2. What should expect you expect out of being a Little? That's up to you. Do your research and don't go into anything blindly.

 

3. Finding a Daddy? Same rules apply as with finding a "vanilla" partner. Take the time to get to know the person rather than the title involved. Know what you want and do not want out of a relationship, see where you may be able to make compromises, and use that as your guide. Make sure the person is compatible with you. Again, don't go into anything blindly and use basic common sense when talking to people over the internet. You get the drift.

 

4. I'm not a 'Little' per-se, I more characterize myself as a Middle/Switch, but my all time favourite thing is being coddled and taken care of in however fashion. 

[CrazyLittleBuggaBoo]

Just do you. Do what you like, what you think you'll like, what draws you to it. Their is no Guide to Little just like this is no Guide to Human. Being Little is just being yourself and embarrassing your childlike nature. A Little is a Person and all People are different. All Littles are different.  Don't worry about what other Littles are doing and if doing something does or doesn't "make you a Little". Do you feel Little? Do you have a childish nature? A childish wounder? Anything that makes you feel Little? You're a Little. With all types and kinds, all Littles are valid, differences and all.

[ChibiPuppy]

What all the people above said is absolutely true, and quite important to take in mind when you start out being little. The only thing I'd like to add is to not use DDLG blogs and others experiences to create the perfect image of what you'd like yourself to be or a future relationship. Figure it out as you go. Give in to your little side, don't be afraid to go into little space. But do you, just like the others said. If you base hopes and expecations on what you've seen online, you'll likely only find disappointment. Those blogs and posts and whatever do very rarely paint the full picture as they only post the absolutely best part of their life as a little and how it is to be with a daddy/mommy.

Talk to other littles and befriend them though, that is always a good thing! We're all nice, really :3

[Guest littleloveslars]

Chibi puppy makes a great point. Its easy to think that the people in those blogs have perfect relationships and great lives but you only get to see one side of it. Nothing is perfect. Behind closed doors its always messy.

[HisuianLilligant]

You might want to buy the big book for littles for $9.99 on Amazon or read it for free with kindle unlimited

[Guest Loki]

Be you! Do what makes you feel happy, safe, and little as long as you aren't hurting you or anyone then it's the right way to be a little! Different folks have different needs. Celebrate life

 

For finding a Daddy ... it's difficult. At least it has been for me, and from what I gather from other people.

[Roselyn_Moon]

When I first became a little I didn't have much of a clue when I was getting into, so with that being said I will say do a lot of research.. no 2 littles are the same.. AND NEVER EVER be ASHAMED of being a little!