Heaven's Lost Property Posted May 1, 2017 Report Posted May 1, 2017 I have been in a relationship for a year and a half and he is bow my daddy for 2 months and I have has another daddy for about a week and a half. So my week and a half daddy knows about my 2 month daddy. Is it okay to have two Daddys if one if them dont know about the other? My (bf) daddy is so loving and sweet but he isn't that into dd/lg. The only reason he does it is to make me happy, although it has brought out more fun side, he still isnt into it. My other daddy (not bf) is just an amazing daddy and I want to keep him as a daddy. What should I do about this?
Dee Posted May 1, 2017 Report Posted May 1, 2017 (edited) Personally for me having two daddies it's okay. It just mean that you're not monogamous. For your situation, I think you need to talk about it with both of your daddies. Because not all people wanna share. Especially talk about it with your bf. Let the both of them understand more, if you get what I mean. If he agree or still not sure, you can talk about the pros and cons, so all of you will be comfortable with it. I wish you good luck! Cheers. Edited May 1, 2017 by Dee 2
Heaven's Lost Property Posted May 1, 2017 Author Report Posted May 1, 2017 Thanks Dee, hopefully it works because I really love both daddys
Guest London Daddy Posted May 1, 2017 Report Posted May 1, 2017 Sorry kitten I personally would be very uncomfortable if a little I was with had another daddy.would you like it if they had another little. 2
babydolll333 Posted May 1, 2017 Report Posted May 1, 2017 I think you need to be honest and open to you're boyfriend/daddy and not go behind his back and have another daddy without telling him. A lot of people aren't monogamous so having two daddies is ok but it's always better to be honest about it. He may understand if the role isn't for him and agree that you should have another daddy but he also may be monogamous and not appreciate you having another daddy without him knowing. Good luck (fingers crossed that it works out) 1
DaddyAlphaca Posted May 1, 2017 Report Posted May 1, 2017 If i were your BF i would see this as cheating and wouldn't be happy at all. So you might want to ask tell your BF before you get caught. See if he is agree with that. Just imagine if your BF having another little secretly,would you like it? 3
Himedere-Chan Posted May 1, 2017 Report Posted May 1, 2017 Keeping secrets are never really okay, especially if it's a secret relationship platonic or not. Ask both men if they are open to polly relationship with you, if one or both say no and want to keep you all to themselves then you should respect their wishes and either choose one of them or choose neither. 1
Lil' Miss Dolly Posted May 1, 2017 Report Posted May 1, 2017 Yea.. This is cheating. Sorry, Honey! Both Daddies need to know about each other and be okay with the situation to make this okay.
Guest QueenJellybean Posted May 1, 2017 Report Posted May 1, 2017 As a polyamorous person with multiple partners who are all consenting and aware of each other, these types of situations are really troubling and incredibly problematic. If anyone that you are seeing is not aware of and/or consenting to your relationship with another one of your partners, it's cheating. As it's been mentioned above, the only way this would be considered a form of valid non-monogamy would be with everyone involved aware of the parameters of the arrangement, not one partner kept in the dark. I suggest you end your relationship with your other partner and come clean to the one you've been hiding things from. Personally, I don't see a healthy resolution to this since the deceit has already been done, but if you can work it out between the three of you, then more power to you! Just please remember that you wanting to have multiple partners doesn't equal them wanting multiple partners, too. Communication is key. 3
DaddyNewYork Posted May 1, 2017 Report Posted May 1, 2017 (edited) Very wrong Edited May 1, 2017 by DaddyNewYork
Guest Cutecumber Posted May 1, 2017 Report Posted May 1, 2017 Oh no no, if you are monogamous, then its definitely cheating..plus if the two week daddy/boyfriend knows and doesn't help you do the right thing, maybe rethink that relationship
Guest MeneerM Posted May 1, 2017 Report Posted May 1, 2017 Sorry, but you might think it is ok, but does your boyfriend... He is kept in the dark and doesn't know. That is wrong. He supposed to rely on you being honest... but you aren't. I guess when you tell him now... it will be too late. The cheating has already been done. Choose to open up, or end one of the two relationships.
jaredstone363 Posted May 1, 2017 Report Posted May 1, 2017 Everyone has already given you great advice. Yes it's ok to have 2 daddy's....as long as BOTH of them know and agree with it. Just because it's a ddlg relationship, cheating is still cheating
Guest blumonkey Posted May 2, 2017 Report Posted May 2, 2017 Bit late to decide if you are poly; you'd know it already. I would not recommend having two daddies as their rules could conflict. You would be better off if bf dropped the daddy role esp as he is not that into it.
Daddy's Lil Posted May 5, 2017 Report Posted May 5, 2017 No. Only one Daddy for me. And I'm his one and only ever Little.
TheGiftedStars Posted May 5, 2017 Report Posted May 5, 2017 I dont mind if youre not monogamous however if youre cheating to have another daddy then it isnt okay. A lasting relationship requires consent and communication.
MonteCristo Posted May 5, 2017 Report Posted May 5, 2017 If you have to keep it a secret, you must obviously be aware that this would not sit well with your boyfriend. That alone should tell you all you need to know.
Little Illy Posted May 6, 2017 Report Posted May 6, 2017 Everyone has basically said my thoughts. But, I think you have a bigger question to ask yourself here: Do you even want to stay with your boyfriend? A part of you knew your boyfriend would not like it if you had another man/daddy, otherwise you wouldn't have kept it a secret. Some part of you knew it wasn't right. But you still made a relationship with a different daddy. And you stated you don't want to give up your 2 week relationship even though it would mean being dishonest to your boyfriend. Maybe this post was a way to try to justify that secret? And if that is all the case, I suppose you should ask yourself where you stand with your boyfriend. If you're willing to keep a secret like this from him, should you two really be together? Sorry for the melancholy repsonse, but it was the first thought that popped into my head. Well, that and the fact you should definitely find out if your boyfriend is poly (for the sake of this situation).
DaddyNewYork Posted May 10, 2017 Report Posted May 10, 2017 No offense OP but you're trivializing love. And because of this I think you need time to mature and grow as a person. For instance, picture a couple, they've known each other as friends, been married for years and are still as in love now as they were when they met forty years ago. One dies in old age and the other soon follows. A fitting end to a timeless romance. Do you honestly feel like that about any of these guys? .... People like to throw around these words like nonmonogamous or poly or confused etc. But that fact of the matter is most of these people just like to play the field. You can't compare a girl or guy that sleeps around, plays in Skype or roleplay with a true timeless love story. Sorry. But it's not the same.
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