Im a daddy but i go into little space too?!

[Ghostt__]

(Its a ldr) Okay so ive been a daddy for awhile and as a joke when she was in little space i said we are switching places and she giggled and said okay and one thing lead to another and i ended up in deep little space and she went into mommie space and we were both having a great time but then i noticed something was wrong and i asked and she said that me being in little space makes her wanna go into it and i said why dont you and she said no because itll make us just seem like friends and i wont like that and when i said ill go out of little space so she can and she said no then went to go to sleep and when im in little space it makes her sad. What do i do?!

[Guest Ginger]

Best advice I can give is just to sit down and have a talk, adult to adult. Explain your wants, hear hers and decide what you two can do. Is it imperative you go into little space or can you sacrifice it for the relationship if needed? Vice versa for her. Ultimately it'll come down to what you both want out of the relationship and whether or not you can compromise. Edited April 27, 2017 by Ginger

[BabySwe]

Sounds to me like you might be a switch, and be both daddy and little That is fine but like Ginger said, the two of you need to talk it through properly to see what the two of you want/need out of the relationship, and if there is a way to get both partners to be happy, or if you need to go your separate ways.