He wants me to beg him

[Pielover]

I've been talking to this guy for a while who claims to be a daddy dom and he told me that I would have to have sex with him first and please and beg him before he would be my daddy , I never had a daddy before so I'm not too sure if this is normal or not

Any thoughts ?

Edited April 25, 2017 by Pielover

[sighing]

Tell him to f*** right off.

No, it's not normal. He just wants to use you for some quick sex.

Edited April 25, 2017 by sighing

[Guest mlkykit]

Yeah, like Sighing said. He just wants some nookie and to live out a fantasy. Block him and move right  along.

[Guest Daddy's☆treasure]

First of all, let me say that I'm sorry you've had to deal with this guy. Secondly, the way he acted towards you is a HUGE red flag and he is not a Daddy Dom to be respected.

 

Thirdly (and not to promote my own post), perhaps you'd be interested in taking a look at this?

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/19983-fake-doms-warning-signssafety-etc/

[Whispering-oak]

hello ..

     PLEASE read this post in the form:

Fake Doms - warning signs/safety etc

Daddy's☆treasure - Yesterday, 10:07 PM ... DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM!!!!!... PLEASE DO NOT SEND NAKIE PICTURES of yourself!!!!! .. AND MOST OF ALL... PLEASE... PLEASE... PLEASE... DO NOT GET INVOLVED WITH THIS PERSON!!!!.. IF he is claiming to be a DD then he is one of the fakes that are you are being warned about in the other posting... please for your personal safety and pride ...read that post then run/block or do what ever you need to do and protect yourself from what appears to be a predator.

respectfully,

WO aka: John

 

[BabyKittenPaws]

My daddy makes me beg, but the fact that he would NOT be your daddy before you had sex with him and begged for it...Huge red flag, I would not get involved with him seeing as he is not a really daddy

[Princess-P]

While sex without a relationship is perfectly fine, and while also only seeking partners for sex and roleplay is also fine, saying you have to have sex before he becomes your daddy is not.

 

Yes some people are only looking for a quick piece of ass and a bit of role play. CG/l is not only a lifestyle, for some its a sexual fantasy. And that's fine as long as both partners know thats all it is and agree to it.

 

Dont ever let someone tell you you HAVE to do something. Especially if your uncomfortable with it. Even if this person was tour daddy he can't make you do anything you don't agree to. Daddy Dom's, or any kind of Dom, can not force someone to do anything they dont want to do. Thats why communication with partners of any kind is so important.

[Leo_Ascendent]

No no no, as others have said, he is nothing but a manipulator and wants to use you for sex. Don't bother with this scum.

[Guest Princessaj]

Hi, thanks for asking for our feedback.

 

I agree with everyone else that this "Poser" does not know that it's the little that gets to choose her DD.

 

Its the little/middle/Princess/Prince/Pet that gets to choose everything about a DDlg relationship that works for themselves, no matter if it is brought up/suggested by the little/middle/Princess/Prince/Pet or the DD/MD/CG.

 

This may be a great time for you to do some research here in all the departments to read how the forum members, little/middle/Princess/Prince/Pet and their DD/MD/CG interact so you can get ideas for what you want your DD and little relationship to be.

 

Maybe start some lists...and you can change your mind at any time as long as you communicate.

 

-Qualities you desire in your real DD? What kind of looks, age range, where they live (do you want close or long distance), attitude, soft spoken, that you desire....go for it, because its up to you who you want to choose to be your real DD.

 

-What do you want your real DD to do for you? brush your hair, give you a bubble bath, hold your hand when crossing the street, choose your clothes, order for you in the restaurant....that will make you feel cared for...anything and everything.

 

-What do you want to do for your real DD? make a special greeting card, cook his favorite foods, give him a manicure, bring it on, because who ever you choose will adore you doing things for him and you will know it by his thankfulness.

 

-What you want to do with your real DD? Activities that you feel great about and can't wait to do with your DD, go to the zoo, Build a Bear, go to the park and swing on the swings, play hopscotch, blow bubbles, build pillow/blanket forts, Skype once a day, text all day, talk on the phone once a day.... ?

let your imagination go wild.

 

-What kind of rules, punishments, rewards you want with your real DD? there are tons of posts on here where members talk about their rules, punishments and rewards...this is a great time to really look at what things will work for you with your very special DD, who loves you for you. Just do searches from the home page with the words,  rules, punishments, rewards.....one at a time.

 

Best & mostly, I think being "FRIENDS FIRST" is a great way to get to know someone really well.

 

Hugs

[liitlegirl1212]

He just wants you for sex. He isn't a real daddy Dom and does not have the right to call himself that. I know it might be hard to cut him out but you deserve to find someone who truly loves you and wants you for you, not just to have sex

[Lil' Miss Dolly]

Run away as fast as your little legs can carry you. That guy is a poo face.

[jaredstone363]

That is NOT normal and he sounds like a creep! You should never have to beg someone to be your daddy. 

[SkunkPrincess]

This is definitely a red flag!!! Don't send him nudes, don't have sex with him etc. Please, block the dude, hes using you for sex! My daddy also makes me beg for sex, but not because 'otherwise he woulnd't be my daddy' but because its a play. The way this guy is doing it is a red flag!!!

[Simon.dd4lg]

He is a complete waste of space

[chubbylilwolfcub]

That's awful. If he claims you have to do these things BEFORE he will be your Daddy, then chances are he wouldn't be much of a Daddy after the fact either. Please run the other way sweetie.

[Guest Sweetkittenbj]

Run, don't walk. Do not pass Go, do not collect $200. This man is nothing but trouble; if you give in to his demands he will slowly take away your self esteem, alienate you from your friends, and demean & belittle you until you believe you are lower than pond scum. And unless the profile has changed, he will start physically abusing you (if he hasn't started already).

[TeddyBearDaddy21]

Sorry but no, the guy sounds like a dumb ass and you shouldn't waste your time on him. A real daddy wouldn't force you to have sex with him. He's one of those fake people who are just looking to get laid quick. Please be cautious around these types.

[*Firefly*]

this is definitley not okay he is a fake ass daddy i wouldnt talk to him again if i were you

[LittleRae]

Okay, little is going to use bad words.

 

What a piece of shit! That's not a healthy way to start a relationship. And all he wants is sex. You tell him you're worth so much more than that.

[RitzClick]

To ask for that kind of stuff before y'all even start dating... he kinda sounds like a creep. I would stop talking with him.

Edited June 9, 2017 by RitzClick

[babygirlprincessxo]

HE IS A FAKE DADDY!! All he wants is sex and most likely does not care about respecting you. He sounds like a daddy who won't respect limits either or care for your needs. You are worth so much more than that! Please stay away!