Help? My daddy is mad.

[lazzyt91]

I had a fight with my daddy because I thought he was with another baby instead of me. I've always had trust issues, and now they're worse.

He threatened to tell my secret, being a little, to my family. I can't let that happen.

My daddy, who I don't know if I can even call him that anymore, is really mad at me. I love him so much and I don't want to lose him.

What can I do??

[Guest Little Bee]

I'm really sorry to hear that your Daddy is mad at you. It's understandable littles being scared about their Daddy being with others. However, in my opinion he shouldn't have threatened and scared you like that even if he's mad. First and foremost, he should be the one to understand and reassure you that there are no other littles in his life. But then again, I don't know the whole story. Perhaps wait until you think his anger has subsided and talk things out as adults how what happened hurt each other's feelings..

 

Hugs xx

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

Yeah, he shouldn't threaten you. He's not just your 'Daddy', he's also your partner. That's a shit thing to do. 

It'll be hard for you though, because you love him. So idk. Just think long and hard about it. 

[Michael]

Give him some time to calm down. And don't worry too much about the threat, unless he's threatened you in the past, he probably just said that out of anger and didn't mean it.

 

You might need to try to work out your trust issues. If you keep letting your trust issues cause arguments, then it makes it even more likely that he'll cheat, and that in turn causes more trust issues, so you shouldn't let it spiral out of control. He's your daddy and you're together, and there's a reason he's with you, so you just have to try to trust him more and put some faith in him.

 

But yeah, give each other some space for a bit to think things through.

[Guest daddysbunnygirl]

it's strange that he felt so threatened by that in the first place, that's a bit suspicious. perhaps you had a reason to suspect something. but again, people express their anger in different ways. i think it's best to let him cool down and then have a talk with him.

[Leo_Ascendent]

The fact that he would willingly out you is a HUGE red flag. What will happen if you make him upset again? What if you try to leave him? This is a big issue, not just for your lifestyle, but personal safety. I have a lot of experience with people and anger, and this is just a precursor of things that could potentially happen. You shouldn't be forced to be with him, or to be in fear.

[lazzyt91]

I found out that I was right.

The reason I thought he had another little because in his car, as ridiculous and obvious as it was, there was a cum stain on the backseat. And let me just tell you- I have never had sec in his backseat. And I had a hard time believing he'd masturbate back there.

I got my answer when my stuff was going missing. I found out that he was with another girl that was transitioning into the Dd/Lg culture and he was giving my things to her.

He didn't tell my parents or family, but I'm really hurt. Have other daddies done this?

[Suziwoo]

Daddy should be aware of your sensitive about trust, and definitely not threaten you.  Daddy should cherish and nuture, not threaten.

[firefaerie]

What a creep! I'm sorry he did that to you. 

[Kara]

I am so sorry that happened to you.  Being cheated on is one of the hardest hitting feelings in the world.  I wish there was something that could be said or done to make that feeling go away but there really isn't it will leave a scar.  Just remember though from here on who gave you that scar and that others deserve your trust until they show otherwise or you might miss out on a chance to truly be happy in the future.  Don't let this one's actions take from your future happiness.  

[Guest ~DaddysLilMonster~]

Dump him

[Chicki]

That's such a low, shitty thing of him to do. Don't even waste your time after that.