Not so little 'little' with low self-esteem.

[Chibi]

I'm a nyc little that's not so little in size, so even I look in the mirror sometimes I slowly becomes sad. At first it as fine, I didn't care what I looked like to other's and was ok with my looks but as time went on and i started getting to know my little-self, I started to feel more and more un-pretty with every time I look in a mirror.

 

What do you do when you feel like this?

 

Do you think I can find a Daddy that love's me for me?

 

Have anyone else felt like this before or is it just me?

[Guest]

Yes you can and will find a daddy that will love you for who you are and your body.

 

I am a 25 year old little in Texas. I don't fit the whole 18-19 year old little vibe that's all over tumbler, but you know what ?

 

That's okay cuz littles come in every size and everyone of them is amazing. There is no one way to look littles. Littles can be skinny or chubby or fat or whatever size and they are still little and amazing. Littles can be any age. They can be any gender or any race, from anywhere.

 

Just be you cuz there is only one of you so may as well be the best you, you can be!

Edited April 19, 2017 by Guest

[Guest mlkykit]

A friend once told me that every time I have bad thoughts about myself, or just everyday in general, I should look in the mirror and say nice things to myself. Easier said than done, I know, but you have to start somewhere. Aside from that, I used to write little notes to myself on Post-it's and stick them anywhere I'm likely to look; Nothing extravagant, just little encouragements like "keep going" and "you're doing so well, Kitkat", and I found that those helped a lot on days when I felt the absolute crummiest. 

 

Remember that you are a human first and humans come in all shapes and sizes. As long as you're healthy, there's nothing wrong with being a "not so little" little. If you chance upon a Daddy who refuses to look anywhere beyond your size, then they're not for you. Love you for who you are first. 

[LittleBett]

Oh I  really can understand you ;-; , I'm recovering from 5 years of suffering from anorexia. As you can imagine, I have a very low self-esteem I´m a very insecure person. And sometimes I see photos of other littles, so pretty and cute, and my self-esteem goes down even more. But of course you can find a daddy I'm sure you are a beautiful person both inside and out, do not lock yourself to the possibility, you have the right to be loved and cared for. There will always be someone that think you´re beautiful, I remember when I was in high school, I was very thin and my hair was falling,  and people made fun of me, but I found someone, my first boyfriend and he said that for him  I was the most beautiful girl, although  I was far from being beautiful in my opinion. Even when both of us  decided later to end the relationship.  The point is, all of us have insecurities, but not let those insecurities to keep you from being happy. Enjoy yourself ! you´re worth of it !. I´m here if you need someone to talk n.n . 

[Guest QueenJellybean]

I think a lot of people here can relate to your struggles, as evidenced above, so you certainly aren't alone! Body image issues can be really difficult, especially when those are coupled with self-image issues! I'm also a big girl who doesn't fit that common stereotype of tiny and young; I'm 26 with big hips and my curves definitely do more than jiggle.

 

It isn't easy to love yourself every day of the week, but I find that if you can remember the moments when you do love yourself, capture them and put them in a jar in your mind for later, you can take one out on a harder day and savor the sweetness. Something I try to remember too is that people will fall in love with so much more than what you look like, especially in a society that is so driven by the internet and online interactions. We fall in love with the way people are passionate about things, and what they think and feel often times before we even know what they look like. 

 

Try not to focus so hard on what you think you look like in the eyes of others, and focus more on making yourself happy. Be the person you want to be when you look in a mirror, and people will see that self-love radiating and be attracted to it. I believe in you. I know it's hard, but start small. <3