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[M-a-d-i]

Topic disclosed. Edited April 20, 2017 by Darling_baby

[Dreamonix]

Don't be afraid of being the little you are.
I am sure he will love it if you just being the way you want to be.

I know its easier said than done. But with my little I LOVE when shes being a little without me having to mention it.
 

[M-a-d-i]

But I feel like when I am being my little self, he doesn't really realize it. Because we're on text. So in return he doesn't treat me like I'm little, and I really need that. I'm not sure how to even explain what I'm feeling, that's why its so hard to talk to him about it

[Guest QueenJellybean]

Long distance relationships can be hard all around, but there are a lot of great resources out there to get you started. I'll link some of my favorite LDR threads here.

 

My suggestions are simple; find a way to communicate with him that you are feeling small, and work from there. You're going to have to work together if this is something you both mutually want, because there are absolutely ways to be small with your partner across a distance! My Caregiver and I are long distance as well, so I definitely understand your struggles. Something that really helps us is regular Skype dates. I know you said you are shy, but being able to physically /see/ that you are feeling small is a really big help for us. You can watch movies together on sites like Rabbit, and I also really love eating dinner together on Skype. Apps like Couple, Avocado, and Choremonster really help at a distance too! (I strongly recommend Couple for the lists, calendar, drawing, and ThumbKiss, of course!) 

 

https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/12332-long-distance-relationships/

[Nymph]

Some daddies need more than just a hint to let them know you are feeling little. I know this won't sound romantic but perhaps you can agree on a cue so you can communicate it clearly without having to say it if it really ruins it for you (to have to say it that is).

 

Since you text, perhaps save a specific set of emoticons for when you are feeling little like the emoji blitz from disney, they are super cute and if you play the game you get some free or you can buy it for 2usd.

 

You mentioned you Skype but you are too shy to talk, are you ok with using the cam? wear a cute bow when you are feeling little or something obvious, not only he will notice but it will probably help you become a bit more open about expressing your little side.

 

This last suggestion will not give you immediate feedback but it's something that might make you feel closer to your daddy and feel the distance a bit less... become his snail mail penpal! draw or color for him and send it, sometimes write cute letters for him just to tell him you miss him or wish him a good day, ask him to send you a shirt so you can sleep in it and feel close to him, etc.

[Guest blumonkey]

the reason I shun ldr like the plague is because most communication is non verbal. with txt you aren't even getting voice inflection, much less body language. use video skype to maximum potential to overcome this huge communication gap in ldr. not just your face but move the camera away so he can see you as if he were in the same room. for this you'd want to use a tablet or link to a TV so you can see him better since the phone is further away. another option is to use the reverse camera pointing towards a mirror to expand his view of you while you can still hold your screen close to see him.

[M-a-d-i]

Thank you everyone for all the great suggestions. I think I have a few ideas to feel closer to my daddy now.