How did everyone discover the ddlg lifestyle??? <3

[littlesuzy]

My ex-boyfriend was into Dd/Lg and I wasn't and I was like about 12 and he was 13 and we were talking about and the next thing I know I am calling him daddy and him calling me Baby girl and it made me happy when he calls me pet names and know I am 18 and I've been in Dd/Lg for 6 years now.

[Bunniegural]

i also fell in love with the little girl in the documentary, Kat, and was totally jealous of her relationship with her daddy; made me want one too  

 

 

Thanks for sharing the documentary, i loved it. Kat is super cool. i would love to go to one of her age play parties, but i kind of didn't like her boyfriend. He was totally pressuring her all the time and not a good daddy imho.

[MeepMoop]

A friend of mine told me she was into this. In retrospect I think I always wanted this, just didn't know it was a thing or even possible. Happiest little in the world now

[Magpies]

I had "friends" who absolutely hated the concept of littles - even nonsexual. I found out about it through them after they started complaining about it.

They kind of roped me into their hatred because they claimed it was all sorts of terrible things, but when I did my own research I found out they were full of hyperbole and were in general just hateful people. I wound up liking it myself because it just suited who I am naturally.

 

I ditched those people months ago. Nothing ever made them happy and everything was problematic to them.

[chubbylilwolfcub]

I have two very close friends who are in a DD/lb relationship and they eased me into the lifestyle. I've always enjoyed childlike activities (coloring, cartoons, etc) and I've always been majority submissive with Bratty tendencies. My friends showed me the lifestyle via tumblr and I met so many great CGs and littles and I felt like I fit right in. My Daddy is very much a nurturer and a "gentle Dom" but he had never experienced the lifestyle until he met me. He fell right into it because it came so natural to him.

[LittleLassie]

I was reading erotica and it ended up being part of the storyline. My intrigue led me to google, Pinterest, tumblr...immediately i associated with everything Little and my Daddy found a natural fit in his role as well

[Guest qtpie]

I was searching for it on tumblr and found all the cutesy ddlg stuff there and it felt like it was me completely, just what I had always needed in my life.

I started calling my boyfriend at the time daddy as a joke cause we knew about ddlg, but we liked it and ended up saying it seriously and doing typical ddlg stuff, even though we never ended up doing the full experience :c

Edited June 6, 2017 by qtpie

[MoDaddy]

I did  a google search to find out about about a past relationship I had. When me and this younger woman had a relationship and lived together, it was in the middle 90's. We actually met before the Internet existed. 

She always really liked Disney movies and had a HUGE collection of them, really liked stuffies, coloring, animals and pets, doing kids things and was always the first to volunteer to babysit younger kids, and she really liked sex and pleasing me and being spanked etc. So this was different from any other relationship I had ever been involved with, so I wanted to see if there was a "type" for her. So again, we had this relationship before the Internet, and neither one of us really knew what DDlg was. So I did a search about 5 years ago and found DDlg fairly quickly. I started reading about it an I now realize that she is a "Middle" and why she likes the things she does etc. I also know more about me and realize I have Daddy qualities and I also know now why I have always been way more attracted to younger women. So thank goodness for the Internet so I could learn more about myself and why I like the things I do and about what types of bbg's I like (middles) and about the entire DDlg dynamic as a whole. 

[curious_little_baepsae]

I was sort of forced into it by stress, got curious and did a bit of online searching... I learned about the dd/lg community after some exploration with what could possibly be giving me the urge to colour, roll around on the floor, cuddle, babble and suck at my fingers. Still learning a lot, though. 

[daddys_kitten910]

I found out about it on ifunny and continued to do more research on it with google and stuff

 

Turns out i really really love and enjoy it :3

[*Firefly*]

i was always into little things and i loved being called baby and princess and stuff. i discovered my interest in dd/lg when i jokingly messaged my boyfriend "yes sir" and he replied "don't you mean yes daddy." after that, i did a lot of research into the lifestyle and i talked to my boyfriend and we kind of just became daddy and little. i love it so much and I'm so glad i found the community <3 it has helped me so much in rough times <3

[potato]

A friend recommended a band to me and showed me that one of the dudes keeps getting called Daddy and I was like "yEah wEIRd, rIghT?!" But in reality I found it super hot and then I went on tumble for...'research' and found out about CG/l and was like "....oh my god I totally fit into this" and here we are! :3

[Untwisted]

Accidentally... 

 

A few years ago, a well-meaning friend managed to convince me to try a certain vanilla dating site.  I wasn't convinced, but gave it a try anyway.  There was a lengthy personality questionnaire to complete as part of the signup process which I did as accurately as I could; at the end, it simply told me that I was in the wrong place and to go away.  I was a bit surprised but realised I was clearly more of a strange deviant than I thought.

I found some less vanilla sites and stumbled across things talking about ddlg etc and realised that was me and probably always had been...

[Guest StarFlower]

I haven't had a Daddy yet, nor truly acted as a little with anyone (for fear of not being understood). I do have a "cute" side that a lot of adult women don't have--at least not that I've noticed. That was one clue! LOL 

 

I've responded to being in the submissive role sexually since reaching adulthood. Never knew I was a little till within the last 6 months. Don't know if there was a specific event, just like the feeling of having a daddy to take care of me and nurture me, and I like structure.

 

Then I found a few YouTube channels to teach me a few of the basics, and I found my tribe!

[Guest daddy's_little_shadow]

I was in an LDR relationship with a guy who was into it, but it didn't last long enough for me to consider it a DDlg relationship. I began researching more about it after we split, and it fit me so well, so I haven't looked back. : )

[Guest Volkmane1985]

While I haven't been fortunate enough to find my Little, I came across DDlg via an ad on Craigslist. It caught my eye and I wanted to know more. Came here and read a lot of topics, thought about it for a while and decided it was/is something I would like to try.

[Heaven's Lost Property]

I got into it because my friend told me that I was so adorable and that I would be perfect for ddlg, she is personally not into it but she fully supports me in ddlg she also introduced my other friend to ddlb

[Bjorn]

I actually found DD/lg through an ex girlfriend. Long story short, I'm polyamorus, my wife and I were looking for a girlfriend. We found her, and she said she was a little. I'm not going into all the details but she already had a Dominant. So I got to kind of watch it but not actually participate. There was a few times I got to sort of experience her in little space. However not anything really to base anything off of. What I liked thought was even though I wasn't her Daddy, I still got an idea as to what it was. I realized a lot of how I act fits that role. So now I want to try it on my own.

[PrincexPaci]

Had my first ever boyfriend at 19 and we were pretty vanilla but some of the stuff we did (non sexual) made me slip into littlespace and I didn't have a name for it so tried looking into it and he wasn't keen on it :/

[PapaBear13]

I always knew I was a Daddy to my Little Pumpkin/wife. It's just the who I am naturally for her. I've always watched after her and coach her through stressful times. I'd hold her and pamper when she would get a pouty lip and was sad. I throughly enjoyed surprising her with gifts simply to watch her girlish side flourish.

Though neither of us knew fully until one fantastic day. I caught her watching Daddy porn. At first she thought she was in trouble and felt ashamed. She was shocked to see that I wasn't mad or turned off by it. Instead I was releived and the loving side of me came out. I sat down with her and we had a long chat. She opened up to me that it has always been a secret of hers that she felt needed to be hidden. I will never forget to joy in her eyes when she realized that her Daddy was understanding and felt the same way.

So it was no real secret to me. However I didn't dare call her out on it, having done would have only made her further suppress her true feelings. Instead I simply waited until the opportunity arose for it to happen naturally. And let me tell you, we couldn't be happier.

[rbbrducky73]

It's been a very long journey. I'm now in my 40's and only discovered it less than a year ago - by accident. Sexually I've almost always been submissive and a little kinky. My ex husband was into BDSM but something about him never allowed me to fully submit to him in the 13 years we were together, but I did learn I like kink.

 

Fast forward to my current relationship. My Daddy and I first dated when I was 14 and he was 18 but split up as a couple after a few months, but have always maintained a friendship with "what if" in the back of our minds. He's always been the one I listen to about things, learned from, trusted, went to for advice, etc. Even after losing contact for years at a time we've always been able to pick up where we left off. I've never felt uncomfortable with him, but I've always felt important, young and SAFE with him.

 

About for years ago we started a serious relationship. He's always been vanilla and has had zero experience otherwise. I've had mostly vanilla with a little rocky road with whipped cream - if you get what I mean. Immediately he was protective, and able to get this tone when he wanted me to do something. I'm not a natural submissive except in bed, so the fact that he's able to tell me what to do and I just do it is impressive. He is the single person that has ever been able to make me feel safe. Not even my parents have made me feel completely safe.

 

Anyway, there are the two stand out incidences that made us realize what we had. First I accidentally called him Daddy while making love, and then a few subsequent times after. I asked him if it freaked him out and he told me, "Strangely, no." Second I read a post on FB where someone said the was looking for their "lifetime little". That struck a chord in me. I'd never heard the term before and actually didn't even realize it was a type of D/s relationship. I Googled it and it hit me. It was like the lightbulb came on. By this time I'd introduced my Daddy to the ways of BDSM and he said he'd be willing to try it. When I told him about the Dd/lg relationship and had him do some reading we both agreed THIS was US. It was us and it had always been us.

 

I'm not a typical little. I discovered it in my 40's. It's something I've only felt with my Daddy. Little time is not something I do naturally - except with him - occasionally. My little age varies greatly, day to day, minute to minute. I have very alpha tendencies but with my Daddy I'm his submissive 24/7, and I don't think anyone else could get me to submit so completely. Except Daddy.

Edited July 18, 2017 by rbbrducky73

[Guest Needy-little2020]

[Literate Little]

tumblr i think?

[uppypuppy]

I saw a super cute post by a little boy that popped up in my explore on Instagram, and as I was intrigued by it, I soon discovered this entire lovely community, and realized that it was just what I was looking for.   

[Guest DarkLIttlePrince]

Wonderfull topic!

 

I had been into BDSM and petplay and always was a Dom... "forced" age regression was sometimes part of the games envolved but that was it...  some years ago, I surprised my then GF with a special dinner and she was very tired and teased me to feed her... she started to use babytalk and asked for a babybottle and things kinda went from there... she had never done anything like it before but we had a very special connection and it was all very natural.... we didn t really label it or even thought about it... to be honest I didn t really know it had a name. It grew as did our relantioship and even when we got to the wearing diapers part we thought of it as a very natural thing... Only when I mentioned it to people envolved in BDSM  did I realize it was called DDLG... and also realized it was seriously frowned upon for some reason... We broke up a few months after discovering this together for different reasons and biy do I miss that dynamic... anyway, that s how I found out.

Edited February 10, 2018 by DarkLIttlePrince