How did everyone discover the ddlg lifestyle??? <3

[A_loyal_daddy]

My bestfriend introduced me to it i was always fond if being called daddy then my bestie started an online ddlg clothing/accessories store i asked what exactly ddlg was and she had me at binkies and stuffies i soon became a daddy and the rest is history:)))

[A_loyal_daddy]

My bestfriend introduced me to it i was always fond if being called daddy then my bestie started an online ddlg clothing/accessories store i asked what exactly ddlg was and she had me at binkies and stuffies i soon became a daddy and the rest is history:)))

[Leo_Ascendent]

Well, I really got into it with someone I was seeking a relationship with, but thinking about it, I had been in similar situations in previous relationships, and didn't know it.

 

When I was with my first girlfriend, she would often call me Daddy during sex, and liked being called Baby, Baby Girl, etc. I found out she had a Daddy fetish and I rolled with it, didn't think anything of it at the time.

 

After we split, I got with another girl who was my perfect match, and by that I mean we both were very dominant. She would call herself Mommy when I was going down on her, and call me Daddy when we were having sex.

 

Later, I was on another fetish site and saw a Little I thought was very cute. We started talking, messaging each other, and sent each other pics, memes, night and morning texts, basic relationship things. I learned a bit more about the style, and realized I had been involved with the DDLG side of things for a while.

 

We eventually stopped seeing each other, due to age difference (I'm 7 years older, and I guess it was kinda weird for her parents). That kinda made me realize I really liked being a DD or CG, so I started pursuing that part of myself.

[Empyrean18]

Sounds silly but I came about a book on Wattpad and it sounded like me so I did lots of research and then here I was Edited May 2, 2017 by Empyrean18

[princess gremlin]

Three years ago I was pretty active on Twitter as a fangirl for a few different bands, and back then it was pretty common for girls to jokingly call the guys in bands "daddy". At first it made me feel uneasy, but then I realized I kind of liked it in a way. So I started googling and then ended up reading about ddlg and being a little. And I realized I'd actually been into little type stuff for awhile, like going to Toys R Us for fun, playing on playgrounds, loving kids movies, chocolate milk, using sippy cups.... (specifically, those things were actually still fun for me between the ages of 14 and 17) And it just clicked with me! I've gotten more and more into it since then, and it's really helped me to understand myself and what I need in relationships. Also I just loved my own childhood so much and always wished I could go back to it, and I'm in college for early childhood education, so honestly I think I just have a deep appreciation for childhood! (but of course, I also love bdsm, so it's the best of both worlds)

[MadameButterfly]

I knew I was into bdsm and then I found the bdsm test that tells you what percentage of types you are, and I found out I was like 97% little. I didn't know what that meant so I googled it and then got lost in the ddlg lifestyle

[Princesspoopybutt]

I was really childish and was following a load of insta accounts then when I got with daddy he started calling me princess and asked if I wanted to call him daddy and it just kinda went from there

[Guest PrincessLilith]

i... discovered it through imvu.... i never knew it was considered a life style. and when everyone i dated accused me of being f**ked up or wierd.. esp with my mental disorders. i quickly became scared and ashamed of it. vanilla just bores me to fcking death and i always end up with men that wants a mother and not a partner. some. might understa d this saying but to most im just 50 shades of fukd up. sorry for language cant help it...

[TheGiftedStars]

Partner.

[Guest Cuppycakelol]

I've always been little just didn't know what it was till I read a story on warped and saw the term ddlg. After that I felt free and stopped suppressing it as much.

[Guest Cuppycakelol]

Ment watpad

[Guest Fros†beard]

My ex, who was into BDSM, was also a big fan of cutesy PJ's and such, and would always ask me for a bedtime story.
I started looking into it, read through some ddlg blogs, and everything just sorta fell into place. It took a while for us to transition from "Sir" to "Daddy," but it was well worth the wait; it felt soooo right. I'm always been the kinda guy who gets off on getting his partner off and all about adjusting to her needs, so it worked out really well on my end. And I mean, I guess I kinda need to be needed...

[kittybaby]

I never knew the name but I always have been a little. Lolita and Japanese fashion led me to cat girls, cat girls became petplay, petplay and my love of cute things became ddlg. if I'm with a guy Ive always wanted the caring attentive type. With a girl i wanted another little and to be little together.

[Little_bratty_kitten]

My ex pointed it out one day to me after we had broken up he started researching a lot of stuff then messages me one day goin "I've figured it out. I think you are a baby girl" I went "what" then he explained and told me to look it up myself and I was like "yeah that defiantly makes sense"

[tayiie]

I was sorta always into it in some way. Not until I was in my teens did I start to research and try to find what it was that I felt was missing. Took some time but eventually I found "home".

[Guest ☽ ᴍᴏɴᴏᴄᴇʀᴏs ☾]

Last year a friend told me that she had enrolled in a BDSM forum and that she was a submissive, and invited me to join the forum when I told her that I was attracted. I was reading many topics in that forum on all kinds of practices, until I reached a subforum that spoke of the DD / LG, was somewhat abandoned, as it seems the Spanish-speaking community is quite small. And there were so many things that I felt identified that was like a revelation for me. I then started looking for more information on Tumblr, and just then I found a fanfiction that touched the topic and I loved it!

[LollyPoppy]

i was binge watching random documentaries on youtube one night and came across a video that touched on ABDL/DDLG. i never knew this kink existed (i didnt know much about kinks in general actually) but watching the video made me realize i was a little and after googling it more i realized i was super fascinated by it and wanted to be a part of the lifestyle and implement it in a relationship with someone one day. i also fell in love with the little girl in the documentary, Kat, and was totally jealous of her relationship with her daddy; made me want one too  

 

 

in case anyone's interested in watching the documentary   : 

 

 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K2HGuvYBX7o

Edited May 25, 2017 by LollyPoppy

[Guest pumpkinpatchPrincess]

There was something oddly arousing about calling my ex by the name Daddy. He wouldn't let me do it; it weirded him out. I wanted to so bad, and it started getting me excited. One day, I was so good, he gave me the opportunity as a reward, but only in the shower. It got me so hot, and it stuck.

 

A few months down the line, we were hanging with some kinky friends of ours and they introduced me to diapers. I didn't really know it was a thing but it intrigued me, and of course, they offered me one. Everything is history.

 

I am practically always diapered nowadays and live my life happily as a little with my new Daddy 

[Guest Sweetkittenbj]

eHarmony!!!

Sorry, I saw Pinterist and Tumblr, I just wanted to throw a dating site in for fun.

But, seriously, someone from my past introduced me to it initially. I would pick it up and put it down from time to time, but I think I'm here to stay this time around.

That is the best answer yet! I've known I was submissive for a long time. My earliest rope bunny acknowledgment was when I was 5 or 6 when I would play cowboys & Indians and I was the Indian princess who got tied up. I looked into BDSM, didn't like the pain/fear aspect. Last fall, the man I was with asked me to call him Daddy, & at first I was "no way, my daddy issues are resolved, thank you. ". Later though, with a man closer to my age it just slipped out & it just fit. From there I started researching it and found this forum.

[Life17]

I was talking to a Little the other day and she ask me was I into DDLG?! So here I am!

[br4t-tamer]

Basically my ex was the type of girl who "needed no man" but was a mess, couldn't fix her problems and when I tried to help she never told me what the problem was but I never stopped asking if I could help her. So one day she told me that we can't be together because I care too much for her.
Then I started going around tumblr and looking for dom tag and such which led me to a relationship posts not too rough and very interesting. Now here I am

[Mewow]

I met a guy online years ago (used to chat because I was bored) who mentioned bdsm, ever since I'd researched it because I like learning about new things and it was interesting, came across DDlg (CGl) couple years ago but it wasn't until January I met a man who was just like, "I think your a little, your just scared" long story short we became friends and I began to accept the little things about myself (that were already there) and since then I've found a nice home here...

[Daddy's Lil]

We are swingers but "felt and played differant" after reserch we found out we were naturally Daddy and a little.

[Bunniegural]

So my Uram and i are D/s, but also in an open relationship. About a year ago, we were on a double date with a nice couple, and i showed them these cute scented markers i had in my purse that had little bears on them, and the guy said "so, are you a bit of a little?" i was like "a little what?" So he explained it to me and i was like "haha no, that's not me ^.^" and then later i conducted more research online and i was like "OMG this *is* me!"

Edited June 1, 2017 by Bunniegural

[cuppycakes]

My earliest rope bunny acknowledgment was when I was 5 or 6 when I would play cowboys & Indians and I was the Indian princess who got tied up.

AHA I HAVE A SIMILAR THING! This really made me laugh a lot because when I was a child, I would always have one of my stuffies or dolls (the one that represented me) tied up! A couple of times if my friends and I were playing a superhero game, there would be a situation where I would be tied up as well. I would always volunteer for it. Quick story one time when I was small, someone I was playing with tied a blanket around me (they actually did it to bug me) and I remember liking it so much I actually asked them if they would do it again. ​I always loved being vulnerable!

 

To answer the question at hand, I've always known that I'm kinky, so I took the bdsmtest.org test, and a couple of the questions creeped me out/intrigued me. There was one question in particular about playgrounds and coloring books, and I said "yeah, I like those things, but not in a sexual way!!" so I marked it as a "no". I ended up taking the test again a year or so later and looked into it. Found out that I had basically been living the ddlg life without even knowing it! :3

 

This is a great topic. It's really neat to hear how everybody else learned about it!

Edit: changed "when I was little" to "when I was a child" because of double meanings.

Edited June 13, 2017 by cuppycakes