How did everyone discover the ddlg lifestyle??? <3

[babybear4ever]

I discovered mine when my guy friend got drunk and started sexting me (=^0^=) and he was saying things like "are you daddy's naughty girl?" "cum for daddy" and although it was weird that my friend was sexting me the whole daddy thing wasn't weirding me out and kinda turned me on, so I looked more into it and found out there's a whole community and lifestyle that I fit right into!  

[Michael]

Crazy ex was into it.

[SkunkPrincess]

I simply discovered it when I was looking at Kittenplay related stuff on Pinterest. (-:

[LilBeth]

I was on a D/s forum/chat site and found the folks I got along with best were the ones who identified little or princess.

[Guest]

I had a "friend" try and turn me into his little. Didn't work out with him but here I am

[smallprincesssarah]

I was always kinda into little stuff (coloring, kids' shows, stuffies) and I had a close friend within the BDSM community. She was the one who pointed out that I was too emotionally sensitive for her flavor of kink, but told me to look into DDlg. 

[Guest Bunnyblossom]

I found out via a guy I'd been friends with for like 10yrs, he was into ABDL. 

And he just randomly was like "Are you sure you're not a little?"

I was like "A little what?" ^^

[LittlePupRune]

My partner introduced me

[HisuianLilligant]

Tumblr!

[DeathMetalPrincess]

An ex kinda get me into it when they wanted to be my daddy, but even though I kinda knew about it before, I didn't really know all that much. I ended up doing more of my own research and a year later, here we are. I also found out just how well abdl suited me tbh, so there's that lol

[BabyKittenPaws]

Pinterest 

[Strawberry Sprinkles]

My experience was pretty similar to smallprincesssarah's. I've always been pretty little-esque and known I was a submissive and into kink as young as middle school. I found out DDlg when my Facebook as hacked and someone was posting porn. A friend of mine said: "I know my Little, she would never do something like that." I looked into what he meant (because it was capitalized, it intrigued me) and it was... pretty accurate. Somewhere along the timeline I had a partner who asked me to call him Daddy and and found an artist who did DDlg inspired work.

Edited April 18, 2017 by Strawberry Sprinkles

[Guest Plebian]

I had the urge to be little for as long as I can remember, but I've known I'm ABDL since I was 13. Google was my friend.

DD/LG came a while later, when I realized I'd one day like to be a daddy too. Can't remember, but it was probably through tumblr.

 

Basically, it's complicated 

[Guest Princessaj]

I found DDlg through Google searches. Google is wonderful because I ended up here.

 

Keep in mind that I had/have no experience in BDSM, all vanilla, all the time....

 

I was researching "Taken in Hand," a somewhat Christian (how the bible talks about marriage) marriage model, where the female is submissive, the husband is in charge of everything and the provider...a classic way it used to be when women stayed at home, cared for the children, the home and the men went to work to earn money to provide. So in essence it is a D/s power play.

 

That research led me to "Christian Domestic Discipline," CDD a lifestyle in which spanking and other punishments (loss of privileges, time outs, etc.) are used to maintain an orderly, Christian household, With all of that included in "Taken in Hand."

 

That lead me to "1950's Household," a BDSM kink with all the trimmings of both of the above. Again, a D/s power play.

 

Inside of those searches, somehow a result for a DDlg page was included. Now you can see the connection or rather why they all lead to each other, at least in my mind.

 

All 3 have D/s, with rules, tasks, rituals, punishments, rewards, in my case...male lead and female follows.

 

In DDlg, I found my "middle" self and a DD. Thanks for being here everyone. Hugs.

[Dreamonix]

My little princess got me into it.
I love being a DD and I love my little princess.
We are both super excited to make friends in the ddlg community so she can have playmates. 

[Guest JoeKarr]

eHarmony!!!

 

Sorry, I saw Pinterist and Tumblr, I just wanted to throw a dating site in for fun.

 

But, seriously, someone from my past introduced me to it initially. I would pick it up and put it down from time to time, but I think I'm here to stay this time around.

[babybear4ever]

I'm sooooo happy to see so many responses!! thanks for sharing everyone! <3

[MountainWillow]

I met my first Daddy randomly, just chatting on Literotica.  I knew nothing about the lifestyle, and we were together a few months before he casually mentioned DD/LG and I started researching it, and it was like a lightbulb went on!  So our relationship naturally progressed into it over time.  Unfortunately it didnt last long, and I was abandoned, but I have found a new most awesome daddy ever and I am super excited!!!!

[Guest blumonkey]

no stranger to kink... turn of the century I was clubbing at goth/industrial clubs in LA where real pain was dealt on various fixtures thruout the club. And later, swing clubs.  I don't have a submissive bone in my body but also knew at the time I never wanted to deal pain indiscriminately as I witnessed, so avoided S/m D/s until I caught on to the lighter more benevolent side - DDlg a few years ago after dealing with a married girl in her 20s into 'daddy' and cuckholding her hubby (who loved it). After that... I fell into DDlg and felt it was my place in the kink community. The only other place would be petplay since it is similar to ddlg.

[Nael]

I got introduced to ddlg by my ex gf over a year ago. Although I've naturally been a dom and had the traits of a daddy without knowing, it still felt a little weird at first at the thought of being called Daddy, but it slowly grew and it fired up! I've been with her for a year and 4 months, but we broke up just a couple days ago. I am very thankful tho that Ive been introduced to ddlg.

[PrincessoftheMoon]

A friend and I were talking about how she might be a little and while I knew nothing about this lifestyle as she talked about it, I kept saying, "me too! me too!". And now I'm here trying to learn more. Edited April 20, 2017 by PrincessoftheMoon

[bethany_p]

For me, I was introduced through my Daddy/BF. He surprised me one evening by asking me if it was something I'd want to try. I was a little wary, but decided to be open minded and try it. 

[Sparklefrosting]

I was trying to find kid clothes that would fit me on Google (I've always known I had a childish side) and stumbled upon a fashion post by a little with a vague description of what ddlg is and I decided to explore it. 

[Harley_Quinn]

iFunny tag lol I decided to look into it and realized that's what I was xD

[Guest HerDaddyDom]

My girlfriend told me about it. She seen it somewhere and got interested into it, and found out she is so much like it. And yeah, she asked me

if I was okay with having such a relationship, I said yes, cause In my opinion, this kind of relationship is one of the most realistic. Simply, because

its caring kind of relationship, loving too. Girls are more meant to be submissive, and cute, just as the "little girl" is.. And then there is their boyfriend/husband

who represents the "daddy". The person who loves them, takes care of them, cuddles them..protects them. The person who is ready to do anything

for their little.