Feeling out of place

[Guest Viper]

My daddy of 7 months and I broke up a few weeks ago. I'm trying to reacclimate myself to chatting with other people, little and big....but, I seem to be at a loss as to what to say.

I used to be a really bubbly person....now, I feel lost. My little side feels smothered....almost gone. I don't know what to do. Being an older little, I feel like maybe I'm kidding myself to think I could be happy in this and I just need to let that part of me go, but overall I feel so sad and empty....

I don't know what to do...

[Old Shaman]

I may not be the oldest person to be giving advice but I can try to help and explain my side the best I can. I've dealt with break ups before and at first you feel so empty and alone to the point where you feel like utter crap. As days go by you begin to think less and less about it until eventually you forget everything about it. My advice to you is give it sometime for it to fade its hard dealing with it at first but eventually it will fade away, plenty of people here in this community are willing to assist you in anyway if that be healing or just offering advice. I hope for you to begin healing and feeling better soon. 

[Guest Sephi]

Viper, you are a valid Little no matter what age. Going through intense stress definitely distances me from my Little-ness. That's okay. Be patient with yourself. It will come back.

 

For me, being part of this forum helps me connect to that part of myself, even without a Daddy.

 

You are welcome to friend me and send a message anytime you are feeling low. *Hugs*

[Guest Senpai Dragon]

Like I mentioned to you earlier, age has no bearing on it in my opinon either. And I fully agree with Sephi in what she said. I know when I am stressed, I dont feel very much like being big. Thats why I have some friends who let me be smol sometimes. It helps and gives me a break about even having to look after myself.

[Kara]

you are doing fine...just take it day by day breath by breath .... and you'll have lots of friends to help here