How did you start your CG/L relationship?

[littlebynight]

i wasn't really sure how to word this, but basically what i meant to say in short form was: how did you tell your cg about cgl/how did your cg tell you about cgl?

 

i told my daddy about ddlg right when we started dating. i wasn't even sure if it was something i wanted, as i had just found the community myself, but i indentified with littles really strongly. i told him about it in a very awkward way ("i have something to tell you" and then leading up to it, then showing him the definition of 'little' on the ride home that night and proceeding to cry afterwards)

 

he was really open, and later told me that he could tell i was a little of some sort (he didn't know what cgl was at the time, but he knew..you know?) because of the way i acted around him. he also told me he didn't like the idea of cgl at first, but once i first fell into littlespace, he fell in love with it.

 

now i moreso identify as an abdl (sorry if that was super confusing i'm terrible at explaining things.. )

[Guest Ginger]

I was chatting with him about a friend who spoke to me often about it. I didn't know how else to bring it up lol we were relaxing in a hotel room when I read a message from my friend, complaining about her Daddy. My friend wasn't aware I knew about CGL, so she took to simplifying things ridiculously.

 

I started laughing at one point, my fiance asked what was so funny. "My roommate thinks I don't know what DDLG is."

"What's that?"

 

I kinda froze up for a moment, not realizing what I'd just walked myself right into lol

 

"Um.. So you know what BDSM is, yea?"

"Mhm."

"Well, you know there's like... Sub categories, right?"

"Hmm, no, not really."

"Uhh.. Well, there is... Um ddlg stands for daddy dom, little girl."

 

His eyebrows kinda raised up in surprise, but I kept going because I was nervous XD

 

"But I don't like calling a guy daddy! It's just... It's a kind of bdsm dynamic with more caring type qualities thrown in?"

 

I honestly couldn't think of how else to explain it as I saw it. He sat there, really quiet and I was literally | | this close to grabbing my backpack and going to a coffee shop or something XD I felt so embarrassed! But after a few more minutes he finally spoke up. Well, less talking I suppose.

 

He pulled me into his lap, gave me a big hug and kissed the top of my had before saying, "My baby girl."

Then a tickle fight ensued and we chatted a bit more about what DDLG was and whatnot.

[tayiie]

I was chatting with him about a friend who spoke to me often about it. I didn't know how else to bring it up lol we were relaxing in a hotel room when I read a message from my friend, complaining about her Daddy. My friend wasn't aware I knew about CGL, so she took to simplifying things ridiculously.

I started laughing at one point, my fiance asked what was so funny. "My roommate thinks I don't know what DDLG is."

"What's that?"

I kinda froze up for a moment, not realizing what I'd just walked myself right into lol

"Um.. So you know what BDSM is, yea?"

"Mhm."

"Well, you know there's like... Sub categories, right?"

"Hmm, no, not really."

"Uhh.. Well, there is... Um ddlg stands for daddy dom, little girl."

His eyebrows kinda raised up in surprise, but I kept going because I was nervous XD

"But I don't like calling a guy daddy! It's just... It's a kind of bdsm dynamic with more caring type qualities thrown in?"

I honestly couldn't think of how else to explain it as I saw it. He sat there, really quiet and I was literally | | this close to grabbing my backpack and going to a coffee shop or something XD I felt so embarrassed! But after a few more minutes he finally spoke up. Well, less talking I suppose.

He pulled me into his lap, gave me a big hug and kissed the top of my had before saying, "My baby girl."

Then a tickle fight ensued and we chatted a bit more about what DDLG was and whatnot.

This must be one of the most adorable things I've read in a long time xD

[littlebynight]

I was chatting with him about a friend who spoke to me often about it. I didn't know how else to bring it up lol we were relaxing in a hotel room when I read a message from my friend, complaining about her Daddy. My friend wasn't aware I knew about CGL, so she took to simplifying things ridiculously.

I started laughing at one point, my fiance asked what was so funny. "My roommate thinks I don't know what DDLG is."

"What's that?"

I kinda froze up for a moment, not realizing what I'd just walked myself right into lol

"Um.. So you know what BDSM is, yea?"

"Mhm."

"Well, you know there's like... Sub categories, right?"

"Hmm, no, not really."

"Uhh.. Well, there is... Um ddlg stands for daddy dom, little girl."

His eyebrows kinda raised up in surprise, but I kept going because I was nervous XD

"But I don't like calling a guy daddy! It's just... It's a kind of bdsm dynamic with more caring type qualities thrown in?"

I honestly couldn't think of how else to explain it as I saw it. He sat there, really quiet and I was literally | | this close to grabbing my backpack and going to a coffee shop or something XD I felt so embarrassed! But after a few more minutes he finally spoke up. Well, less talking I suppose.

He pulled me into his lap, gave me a big hug and kissed the top of my had before saying, "My baby girl."

Then a tickle fight ensued and we chatted a bit more about what DDLG was and whatnot.

this is so cute i love it

[LittleGirlEmilia]

Ugh... Basically...

 

Me to boyfriend: YOU'RE DADDY NOW!

Him: ... Uh... What? 

Me: GOOGLE IT! 

 

I don't have a cute story.

I didn't even tell him I was in the DDLG scene until I realised I wanted to submit to him.

I'm awkward about these things. 

Thankfully, he accepted it, just like that, I was dead paranoid he thought I had daddy issues (he's great friends with my dad) so I kept asking him if he fully understood everything and told him he can ask me questions. He hasn't asked me a thing but before I told him I wanted him to be daddy, we had the natural DDLG relationship going anyways. 

[HisuianLilligant]

I met my daddy on here and we talked everyday and spent lots of time together and realised we were extremely similar, we then discussed our pending relationship in detail(what we wanted, limits etc) and have been in a super successful ddlb relationship ever since

[Dada's princess]

As much as I hate to admit it, I was one of the judgy pants. I only knew of how one acquaintance's relationship was and it highly skewed my view. They were just odd about everything amd creepy and lewd. It made me super uncomfortable. I didn't want to be like them at all.

Move forward many years and a state away I began speaking with a Dom and we clicked like crazy and I was/am a little broken (my word) and he ended up feeling and extremely protective and he started using certain phrases and I asked a crazy number of questions.

I couldn't say Daddy to him verbally for quite awhile. Many months later I don't use his first name at all. No matter where we are he is "Daddy"

[lifeasalittle]

I met my daddy online (LDR). The site wasn't ddlg/bdsm exclusive at all so I had really no idea what to expect. It just so happened that I commented on something he posted which made him look at my profile (where I had posted something "daddy" related). He told me after we started dating he could tell I was a little right away. The first day we talked he mentioned how he wished he had a little girl to watch movies with or something like that. It kind of clicked for me that he was a daddy dom..and I'm a blunt person so we talked openly c:

[PerilousRainbow]

My Daddy messaged me on a site just for meeting people and we started talking about just normal stuff. I had gone through a breakup and we were talking about how my relationship had been, things I would've changed, and then we got into things I like and need if I were to be with someone again anytime soon. It wasn't him trying to get with me it was an intellectual conversation that diverged into more personal matters. He's been into Ddlg for a little bit and said to me that based on what I was telling him it might fit for me too. And honestly being so recent from a breakup was a good thing. It's when I'm most honest with what I want in future relationships and what I as an individual truly want.

 

I did some reading and talking to him, and I've wanted a dom for a while, so we agreed to meet up. I guess it's a small bit long distance as we live an hour and a half away from each other. The meet up went fantastic and we talk every day

[Guest Sinderella]

I actually did DD/lg without even knowing what it was. I never called Dadd by his name. I didn't call him Daddy, but a pet name. It was the same vice versa. I had never heard about DD/lg. We did all the typical stuff though, Daffy played games with me and let me embrace my inner child. He loved to wash me and I'd help him trim his hair. We'd scare each other around the house for fun. I was his Punkin'. I came across it on a submissive blog. I began searching it and finding articles. I just told my DD "look that's what we do"! He simply agreed with me and we progressed from there