Would This Affect My Ability to Find a Little?

[regands]

I'm a very loving and smart guy. I've had a few DDLG relationships, but each person is different and I know this. I'm hoping for someone online and if it moves to real life that's great. However I'm disabled. I cannot walk and require help to do a lot. I have the personality to be a Daddy, but I'm worried Littles won't want me due to my situation. I can discipline and give endless attention. What do you guys think?

[Guest Sillylittlemouse]

I don't think that should have an effect? Although everyone sees things differently! You will find the right little for you i am sure. ^.^~

[Guest Sephi]

I think that you should be fine!

[BabySwe]

I agree, as long as you have the personality, that's what matters. Everyone has their challenges in life, and most littles that gets discipline and attention are bound to be happy The rest is individual, but i don't think you having a disability in it self is in the way for you being a wonderful daddy! Only thing I can think of that possibly could be difficult is if you find a little that's in to diaper play. But that depends on what disability you have in the first place. It might not be a problem at all, or you might not be in to it yourself

[regands]

Thanks all! Hopeful in my quest to find a little

[Guest]

there is someone for everyone!

just get to know people is my first suggestion

stop by the chatroom when you get time... we're a a crazy bunch usually... but its a good place to get to know others!

[PrincessLiv]

Aw no it shouldn't impact it too much. Maybe with some people but they aren't worth your time anyway. Good luck in your search for a little!

Edited April 11, 2017 by PrincessLiv

[Princess-P]

No one is the ideal person for everyone. Lots of people may have a problem dating someone with a disability and that's fine. But there will be others who don't care. Just as there are people who wouldn't want to date someone who is over weight. Or under weight. Or who have a mental health disorder.

 

I think that having a disability or mental health issues does put people at a bit of a disadvantage simply because many people who are "healthy" don't know how to handle a disability or disorder and people who are also disabled in someway aren't always able to care for someone else.

 

But being at a disadvantage does not make something impossible so the best advice is to not get too upset or frustrated if things don't move as quickly as you would like.

[regands]

No one is the ideal person for everyone. Lots of people may have a problem dating someone with a disability and that's fine. But there will be others who don't care. Just as there are people who wouldn't want to date someone who is over weight. Or under weight. Or who have a mental health disorder.

 

I think that having a disability or mental health issues does put people at a bit of a disadvantage simply because many people who are "healthy" don't know how to handle a disability or disorder and people who are also disabled in someway aren't always able to care for someone else.

 

But being at a disadvantage does not make something impossible so the best advice is to not get too upset or frustrated if things don't move as quickly as you would like.

I have to remember that! I'm hopeful I find my little!

[Guest Wolfsbabylove]

I have been thinking of what to say in response to this since you first posted it. I have a physical disability as well so i just wanted to tell you that no matter if you can walk or not, if someone is meant to be with you and love you, they will, regardless of anything you see as a negative or downfall. Good Luck in your search.