Advice for secret littles?

[cutecloud]

So I live with my sister who has no idea about Dd/Lg and im a little..its very hard to be in little space as she is always around and will say things such as "why do you act like a 6 year old?". Does anyone have any advice on how i can secretly be little? Thank you!

 

[Guest x77]

I've recently made a space for myself which nobody is allowed in. I live with two other adults and the easiest thing to do is just go be Little somewhere they can't see or when you're home alone.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Da4Gmc8BZYk

[Guest lunarmoth]

Do you have your own room with a door that can close? If you do then when you get into little space that might be the best place to be.

 

For a year I lived with 2 roommates and only one of us had a door (wasn't me), I strung up a curtain so that I could have a semblance of privacy, although the bathroom was through my room so at any minute someone could knock and walk through.

 

It was pretty stressful for me, but after a bit of us all living together and a routine starting up I was able to get in more little time. When they were gone, or when they were asleep, or during big homework hours I found that I could b a little more without getting any looks bc they wouldn't walk in since they were busy.

 

I also found that there is a certain level of "quirky" that passes, especially when living with someone, so some of my pj dresses passed and some of my hair styles. I know lots of non littles that have a stuffy or two so I didn't hide mine.

 

I found little ways that were easily passed over by others to help me root my littleness without getting weird looks like:

 

-a mini stuffy in my backpack or purse

 

-using water gym bottles for the sippy cup effect without being thought "weird"

 

-watching my little shows with headphones, or watching the ones that have fringe followings (like my little pony) on speaker

 

-excusing some of my food choices (like rice cakes) as part of a diet I'm on

 

-having a collection of adult coloring books that i kept with my little coloring books, so when people peeked in they didn't know it wasn't "adult" ones

 

It takes a bit of trial and error to find what works for you. If I was really feeling it, I would escape to my car with my fav stuffy and a coloring book for some space to just be me. 

 

I hope some of this helps! Good luck!

 

~lunarmoth

 

[cutecloud]

ill definitely try the tips yall suggested..sadly i share a room so it will be a bit harder but maybe once i get used to the schedule it will be easier! also ill definitely try the water gym bottle thing(: thank yall so much!!

[honeyraindrop]

These are really great advices! hehe I also live with my family so I can only really be little when I'm by myself. What I try to do is slowly incorporate the not so weird things into just how I am everyday. For example, I have always had loads of stuffies, so it's normal for my family to see them in my room. In general, I just like cute/kawaii things so I collect that kind of stuff, which can kind of be  a way to secretly feed my little side. For me, a lot of being little is having energy and being happy, so I try to act that way in front of people so that it almost becomes the norm. Pampering myself makes me feel little, too, so locking the bathroom door for a bath is nice and you can get cute bubble bath and stuff that no-one will think twice about. I don't own any pacis for fear of people finding them, so I suck on my thumb instead.

My best trick I've come up with is writing my rules/rewards in my planner. I don't have a caregiver, so I don't have anything sexual or intimate on my rules list. I also titled it something other than rules, so if someone looks at my planner it just looks like a list of daily to-dos.