Pringle Posted April 8, 2017 Report Posted April 8, 2017 Recently, my boyfriend brought this ddlg/b stuff to my attention. He seems quite interested in being a little, and I quite enjoy the thought of being his daddy. I don't mind the thought of much of anything, and we agree on most of the same things we expect/accept for this lifestyle for us. But we're in a long distance relationship. It's horrible because I'd love to take care of him and tuck him in and help pick his outfits and hold him tight... but the distance makes it impossible. I want to do the best I can for him where I am, though. I was hoping someone could share their story if they're in a long distance relationship of this sort, or possibly link me to some blogs and sites I can look up how to be a decent daddy.
cuppycakes Posted April 8, 2017 Report Posted April 8, 2017 Hey that's great! Good for you (。’▽’。) I'm a little, and not in LDR, but I can hit you up with some links. There's a search bar on the main page, and a lot of things in the "resources" section, so I recommend looking those places. (all links are SFW) I don't know if you're looking for rules and things (cause I know some littles don't have them), but I'll link a few anyway. GENERAL ADVICE: https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/51-general-advice-for-new-daddies/ HEALTHY CAREGIVING: https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/5454-lets-discuss-healthy-caregiving/ RULES: https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/2210-what-are-your-rules/ PUNISHMENTS: https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/15725-punishment-ideassuggestions/ AFTERCARE: https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/19357-aftercare/ LDR BRAT (just in case hehe): https://www.ddlgforum.com/topic/18658-working-woth-an-ldr-brat/ There's WAY more stuff out there, I just took a few minutes. Look around the caregiver cafe! All of the forums, really. I think the bolded ones are really important and give some great information. Good luck!♥
cuppycakes Posted April 8, 2017 Report Posted April 8, 2017 Oh, I also wanted to add that with technology the way it is, a lot of LDR things are possible where they weren't before! Like picking out outfits, even! If he sent you a picture of 3 possible outfits, you could pick one. Things like that, you know? There's a lot of ideas online, too. (There's even a lot meant for actual fathers and children, but hey whatever gives you ideas, right? HERE is an example sfw)
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