How To Make a Little Feel Little

[mrbilbio]

Wow ,

 

what great ideas it really gives me something to think about I know that inherently it is all about putting yourself there for your special someone

[Daddy4Princess]

One of my favorite things to do when my little starts to have a little tantrum is to remind her to "Use your words, baby."

 

And cuddling her to sleep makes her little in nothing flat. I scoot up close behind her, wrap her tight in my arms, cup one of her breasts, (not in a sexual way, but more of a possessive way) nuzzle her hair, and whisper "Now I'm where I belong."

 

10 times out of 10, she'll be whimpering and sucking my thumb and off to dreamland within 5 minutes.

[wardenmark]

While little’s do need time to play alone and with other little’s without adult intervention, playtime with Daddy is also important.
Little’s crave time with Daddys. It makes them feel special. Daddys should find time to spend playing with their little’s on a regular basis. This should include one to one and group play dates.
In pretend play, let your little develop the theme. Get into their world, it will help them develop there little personality and make you a happier Daddy. Let them go with it. Ask questions. Play along. Be silly along with them and have fun. Avoid over-stimulation. Know when it is time to stop playing and take back your authority roll by declaring chore time or cleanup time etc….
Also, when appropriate, Daddys can use stuffed animals or puppets to act out real-life situations that can teach problem solving or social skills, further encouraging there little to fully release themselves of all adult thinking while in there littlespace. Let the puppet demonstrate the wrong way to handle a situation. Then, along with input from the little, act out a better way. Afterward, let the little do the same.

More playtime ideas:
Play outdoors.
Throw balls.
Push littles on swings.
Make mud pies.
Go on a hike around the neighborhood.
Take a nature walk in your backyard.
Play games – card games – board games – silly and wacky littles games.
Help them learn to take turns, how to win and how to loose.
Praise them. Encourage them.
Laugh with them.
Get involved in a craft project together.
Build a jigsaw puzzle.
Bake cookies.
Paint a picture.
Listen to music together.
Sing along.
Play rhythm instruments along with music.
Get out the guitar or keyboard and make music.
Read a book together.
Ask questions.
Ask them to change the story or make up a new one.
Watch a movie together.
Find out what they liked – how they felt. Discover the little’s interests.
Comment on and discuss any bothersome content either words or actions.
Play little games like: Follow the Leader – Guess What I Am? – Hide and Seek
Help littles when they show the need it or ask for it.

It is important to use it as a time to teach, patience, problem solving, social skills, and creativity. Once you can get into your littles headspace, they will truly be able to release themselves fully into your care. It establishes the trust bond for those who want to move there DD/lg relationship up a notch.

Playing with littles builds a bond that will last forever. It lets the little know he or she is loved and appreciated. It opens the door for sharing problems and concerns when the need arises. It helps the Daddy get to know and understand the uniqueness of each little. It is also great stress reducer for overworked Daddys.

[Guest Daddy's☆treasure]

Make fun progress charts with rewards! My Daddy and I do that.

[Guest TNDaddy]

A big, huge one for me is play with her! 

 

Nothing helps me feel smaller than when Daddy actually plays with me.

 

Offer to play a video game that they like. 

Color with them. 

Start talking in that voice you use to make them smile, even though they aren't smiling. 

Act like a Little! (Watch how fast that makes them burst out laughing and tell you to stop it. I dare you.) 

Tease them about how you are going to /have/ to use their stuffies and sippy cups because they /clearly/ aren't interested. 

Suggest a Little movie or show when choosing what to watch. 

Grab a nerf gun and just start firing at the wall.

Start a food fight.

Start a water fight. 

Roll up your shirt, and play your tummy like a drum until they squeal with laughter. 

Be as outrageous as possible.

 

Once, when Daddy had picked me up from work and I was feeling really low and the exact opposite of Little, He asked me where Little Belle had gone.

 

"She's on vacation. In Florida."

 

"Oh. Well. May I call her? Maybe ask her to come home?"

 

"You can try. You might get a voicemail. She's very busy."

 

So He did. He called right there next to me in the car, and left me a voicemail begging me dramatically to come home and eat macaroni and cheese with Him. Fake sobbing and all.

 

Spoiler alert: I totally did. 

Playing with your little is very important. That is one thing that I always take time to do.

[Guest Little_Miss]

Tell them they're too little for something.

 

Tell them they're adorable.

 

Cute names.

 

Complement them on their drawings or colouring that they try very hard on!!

 

Tell them you love them and are proud of them.

 

Let them cuddle you lots.

 

 

 Lots of things!! :'3

[Guest DaddysLolita]

and don't forget to tie your little's shoes !! if they try to do something adultish remind them they're too little and daddy/mommy will do it for them 

 

I absolutely love having my shoes tied and being told to "Let Daddy do it" or "You're to little to do that".

 

<3

[Kinzpounder81]

I'm showing this to my daddy today

Thanks for posting!!

[Kinzpounder81]

I'm showing this to my daddy today

Thanks for posting!!

[Kinzpounder81]

Im a new daddy & my little sent this to me. Fantastic!! This will really help. Thank you

[Kinzpounder81]

This is a wonderful list ... i would love it if i ever find a daddy he would do all of it to me

[Kinzpounder81]

Are you still looking for a daddy?

[Lilp]

Are you still looking for a daddy?

That really inappropriate to ask when you have a little

[Nymph]

Once, when Daddy had picked me up from work and I was feeling really low and the exact opposite of Little, He asked me where Little Belle had gone.

 

"She's on vacation. In Florida."

 

"Oh. Well. May I call her? Maybe ask her to come home?"

 

"You can try. You might get a voicemail. She's very busy."

 

So He did. He called right there next to me in the car, and left me a voicemail begging me dramatically to come home and eat macaroni and cheese with Him. Fake sobbing and all.

 

Spoiler alert: I totally did. 

 

A perfect example of a lovely relationship :3 

 

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I like everything on the list (well, not they diapers coz it's not our thing) and what everyone added, the tying laces one is particularly important to me, is something Daddy has done from the start without asking and it always makes me feel so loved.

 

I suppose patience really is the main thing, like how he is never too busy for a hug or how if I am scared at night and I am trying not to wake him up he will notice and put me at ease until I fall asleep again.

 

As for that comment to not look down on your little and make demeaning comments... some of us like to be teased XD in a playful way though, not being a meanie or in a naughty way can be cool too.

[Princesspunzie21]

I love this just wish i had a daddy, its very much missed <3

[babygirl.jenny]

I find most of these to work very well!

sometimes daddy buys me these things to make me happy:

 

perfume/ body spray/ baby oil

 

toys/ barbies/ babies

 

small skirts/ dresses ( mostly pink, yellow, or white)

 

the most important thing is to be kind to your princess/prince and to make them feel small and special

[Guest Daddy Judas]

One of the most important details to me is being consistent when it comes to how you treat them and react to them. If they feel uncomfortable talking to you because they are afraid of how you will act, you could very well take them right out of it and make it infinitely harder to be little again. If they feel comfortable and can trust your reactions and behaviours, it will be so much easier for them and make transitioning much smoother.

 

If they are having trouble feeling little, try to get them to open up about what may be holding them back. Sometimes it's just out of both of your hands. Sometimes it's something you can work together on. Never dismiss when they have trouble feeling little as just a small issue that doesn't warrant attention. You are their beacon of support and must at least try to comfort them.

 

One of my favorite things to do is make funny voices while talking, or teasing them with something (UwU)

 

One of the things I've always wanted to do with a little that I think would be a good idea is going on a picnic at a park with a playground.

 

Just thought I'd revive a thread that I figured newcomers would be interested in.

[RavenclawPrincess]

One of the most important details to me is being consistent when it comes to how you treat them and react to them. If they feel uncomfortable talking to you because they are afraid of how you will act, you could very well take them right out of it and make it infinitely harder to be little again. If they feel comfortable and can trust your reactions and behaviours, it will be so much easier for them and make transitioning much smoother.

 

 

THIS. As someone whose trust isn't readily available, I can verify that the point made here is CRUCIAL. Genuine little space is something that I fight tooth and nail to protect from harm. Consistency is key in building trust to know that little me is safe with someone and I agree 100% with that. If I feel safe, then I can be little and that's something that I think most littles can relate to. There's an infinite number of ways to make someone feel little, the key is to ensure that it feels safe for them to be little in the first place. 

[Guest Sparkly_BunBun]

uhm... I don't understand this one "Give her raspberries on her tummy"

Do you mean the fruit? Won't it stain the shirt? Why would you do that?

[Little kaiya]

*chuckle* A raspberry is where you put your lips on their tummy and blow. It tickles and if the person is anything like me it causes loud uncontrollable giggles.

[RavenclawPrincess]

It’s funny how tickles/raspberries is such a common way to make someone feel little. I personally hate being tickled and don’t quite understand what the fuss is all about. But to each their own, everyone is different and variety is the spice of life. Whenever suggests that they’re going to tickle me I joke back that in my head being tickled is the equivalent of that person consenting to getting kicked Edited June 26, 2020 by MellyBoo19912015

[Kitten&Spice]

Personally I think it all depends on what your little likes and how they regress. I find that some littles when you say certain phrases it helps them regress while others may do it with a movie. I think it is important to find what works best for your little. Try different things out. You can even ask them what helps them and do that as well! Just like kids we are all different and have different interests!

[Wolfie.5]

Would you have any advice on that for long distance?

[Guest Daddy Judas]

Would you have any advice on that for long distance?

Have them color a picture for them to show you over the internet, take virtual tours of aquariums, caves, museums, etc.

 

The sky is the limit, even you are on the other side of the planet

 

I hope that helps.